My fiance doesnt want sex as much as I do

[camo_terrain]

This is how it is; Me and my fiance love each other very much but we're always fighting. the main reason is because i love to do it with her and she does too BUT... she only likes to do it like once a week if that and we're both 21. shouldn't we be doing it like wild animals if were this young and we love each other so much... and another thing i've notice is when we do do it, we do it for like 5-10 minutes and we're done. it just doesn't seem like we ever make love anymore. and another thing is when we do it, she never ever wants any foreplay?????? what the F is that? when we first started going out she would want to do it all the time and she loved foreplay. but now it's gone hill soo much. i have no idea what to do. also is there any kind of medicine to stop the craving for doing it so much? i think i might be a nympho or something

[whichwayisup]

Better to find out now if you two are sexually compatible than later. I know you love her, but can you see yourself still happy in the marriage 10 years from now if the sex isn't frequent? Throw in afew kids, busy and stressful lives, work, a house, possibly a dog...

 

You're both very young too. People do ALOT of changing in their 20's into their 30's..So if you need to take more time before getting married and/or setting a date, take that time. Find out if this is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.

 

Does she have any sexual hangups? Something from her past or childhood? Talk to her, tell her how it makes you feel. Listen to what she has to say and maybe there is some sort of compromise to be made. Or even see a sex therapist together...If you want her, DO everything necessary to make it work. If you're not sure, then take a step back.

[fehr4jesus]

You need to make time for her.Take her out to dinner.Drink some wine.Be romantic.Woman are very sexual when romance is taking place.Tell her how much you love her ,love about her.Complament her always.Take time out for her.My husband is so wonderful. He never forgets to tell me everyday how much he loves me and thanks me for his beautiful girls i gave birth to.He never forgets my b-day, our anniversary ect....He makes time for him and I.when we lay in bed at night we talk before we go to sleep.He is a wonderful man.He has told me before that He has learned so much from me.That he nows feels what love really feels like.

 

just whatever you do don't fight with her.Try to talk to her.Hopes this helps.Good luck.