MikeViper Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Okay, well here's the situation, I was sitting in the lobby after track practice and then this hot chick named Ashley, who was in my gym class last year, giddily says "Oh my god! Is that Mike?", then we talked and she even complimented me and said "I like your haircut". Here's pretty much how it went: Ashley: Oh my god! Is that Mike? Ashley: Hi, Mike! Do you remember me? Me: Yeah, your that Ashley girl from gym class last year. Ashley: Yeah! Ashley: So, how's it going? Me: Good. Ashley: I like your haircut. Basically, I want to know, do you guys think that this girl likes me or was she just being nice? If there's a good chance of her being interested, I'll definitely think about going further with this girl. However, as you can probably see, I'm going to have to work on my conversational skills greatly, before I can successfully think about persuing any girl. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 We know one thing is for sure, she likes your haircut. Talk to her another time and ask her out then. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Not near enough information for an answer. This is all the conv you have had with this girl? The way to know of a girls interest is to show interest yourself. Of course this requires risk of rejection so welcome to the big leagues. You have to put yourself out there to know for sure ( unless your a rock star or a celebrity ). Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Show her that you are interested in her. For starters, ask her about herself. Ask her how she has been after all these years and go from there. Showing her that you are interested in her business is a good start. Yamaha makes a good point as well. Prepare yourself mentally for the risk of rejection. Link to post Share on other sites
qnmc Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 Also, look for the body language cues - these are very important. Things like... 1) Was she playing with her earrings, necklace, etc. 2) Were there any hair flips - huge sign by the way 3) Did you make her laugh? Women who are interested in a dude will usually make them feel like they're the funniest guy on the planet. Now I'm not saying that all of these body language cues need to happen. Keep one thing in mind here - when women think they're being very overt, a lot of times we men don't pick up on it. For instance, if a girl locks eyes with you a few times, or for a couple seconds, she thinks she's being very overt. A lot of times we don't pick up on it... becaue a lot of times we need to be hit over the head with a shovel to pick up their subtlties. Link to post Share on other sites
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