Simons Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I Met this lady online, we have been talking for now 1 month and thing seems to be going just fine. We have been talking over the phone a lot lately. She asked me something that i did not understand. She wanted to know if i have big feet and big hands. I refused to answer telling her she will find out when we meet. She insisted and begged me to tell her. Now, what is big hands, big feet has to do with dating???. Oh women i never understand. Could somebody help me understand this????
SmoochieFace Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I Met this lady online, we have been talking for now 1 month and thing seems to be going just fine. We have been talking over the phone a lot lately. She asked me something that i did not understand. She wanted to know if i have big feet and big hands. I refused to answer telling her she will find out when we meet. She insisted and begged me to tell her. Now, what is big hands, big feet has to do with dating???. Oh women i never understand. Could somebody help me understand this???? She's probably thinking that if you have big hands and big feet you may have a big dick and if you have a big dick she'll be more inclined to *beep*... whoops... DATE you. Just my guess, of course... and I wouldn't be surprised in the least if that's what she's really thinking. Some women are just plain nutty. Don't let it get you down.
lindya Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I Met this lady online, we have been talking for now 1 month and thing seems to be going just fine. We have been talking over the phone a lot lately. She asked me something that i did not understand. She wanted to know if i have big feet and big hands. I refused to answer telling her she will find out when we meet. She insisted and begged me to tell her. Now, what is big hands, big feet has to do with dating???. Oh women i never understand. Could somebody help me understand this???? Yes. Most of your posts seem to involve bitching and moaning about the opposite sex because you're refusing to even attempt to handle your break up like an adult. Consequently, you will turn normal women right off - and will only attract strange ones whose attitudes towards men are as unhealthy as your attitude towards women is. This enables you - and them - to continue diligently gathering any evidence you can to support all the hostility and negativity towards the opposite sex that you're so carefully nurturing. Good luck with that.
Yamaha Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Big hands and feet also implies that you are probably tall. Women love to feel safe and a large guy makes them feel secure. It also might have something to do with the myth of "big feet, big meat ( dick )". I don't know if it would be worth meeting someone who would ask this question. She seems immature.
Author Simons Posted March 9, 2006 Author Posted March 9, 2006 She's probably thinking that if you have big hands and big feet you may have a big dick and if you have a big dick she'll be more inclined to *beep*... whoops... DATE you. Just my guess, of course... and I wouldn't be surprised in the least if that's what she's really thinking. Some women are just plain nutty. Don't let it get you down. The other way round for her: tiny hands, tiny feet..implies tiny hole??? that would be nice
Author Simons Posted March 9, 2006 Author Posted March 9, 2006 Yes. Most of your posts seem to involve bitching and moaning about the opposite sex because you're refusing to even attempt to handle your break up like an adult. Consequently, you will turn normal women right off - and will only attract strange ones whose attitudes towards men are as unhealthy as your attitude towards women is. This enables you - and them - to continue diligently gathering any evidence you can to support all the hostility and negativity towards the opposite sex that you're so carefully nurturing. Good luck with that. Lindya, I really respect women. I wish you new, may be my posts show differently, but you should understand where i am comming from. Thanks for your responces.
SmoochieFace Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Yes. Most of your posts seem to involve bitching and moaning about the opposite sex because you're refusing to even attempt to handle your break up like an adult. Consequently, you will turn normal women right off - and will only attract strange ones whose attitudes towards men are as unhealthy as your attitude towards women is. This enables you - and them - to continue diligently gathering any evidence you can to support all the hostility and negativity towards the opposite sex that you're so carefully nurturing. Good luck with that. And do you think your *shot* at SIMONS is gonna help him be more positive towards women? What does this have to do with his question? Hell, I'm curious myself - why would some woman wanna know how big (or small) a man's hands and feet are? I gave my thoughts on it... now I wanna know what others have to say about it too.
catgirl1927 Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I can only imagine it has to do with penis size. Or the size of the whole guy. I dunno, sounds a little strange. You can be attracted to a guy with big hands and feet, I mean, whatever does it for you, but to ASK seems odd.
littlekitty Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Ha... I thought this was going to be someone saying they'd noticed thier GF had rather large hands and feet and what did we think this might mean....! Well if she's over a size 8 shoe (UK).... she's a he! Yep... it's a cock thing. She's trying to work out how well hung you are. Nice.
SmoochieFace Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Yep... it's a cock thing. She's trying to work out how well hung you are. Nice. Well... looks like I am right, once again. My record still stands unblemished.
catgirl1927 Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Did you ask about her boobs or anything? She sounds SUPER classy.
lindya Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Lindya, I really respect women. I wish you new, may be my posts show differently, but you should understand where i am comming from. Thanks for your responces. Your posts do demonstrate differently. I can appreciate that after a break-up it's very difficult to stay in a positive frame of mind, but your posts indicate that you're sliding into a pattern of complaining about women rather than undertaking the more difficult task of self-examination in order to determine how you can begin to improve your state of mind. And do you think your *shot* at SIMONS is gonna help him be more positive towards women? It's aimed to be an honest expression of what sort of response a guy who thinks in those terms is likely to invoke in women. Do you think that this response you gave is likely to encourage him to view women more positively? Some women are just plain nutty.
alphamale Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 the bigger someone is physically the bigger each of their individual body parts. bigger/taller men have bigger parts (including the cock).....that's why women love tall men. If you're a man who is 6'2" or above you'll always have pussy, even if you're average looking and have no money
kitten chick Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 the bigger someone is physically the bigger each of their individual body parts. bigger/taller men have bigger parts (including the cock).....that's why women love tall men. If you're a man who is 6'2" or above you'll always have pussy, even if you're average looking and have no money WRONG. Absolutely wrong and I speak from experience. This is complete B.S. Alpha, you have no idea what you're talking about.
SmoochieFace Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 It's aimed to be an honest expression of what sort of response a guy who thinks in those terms is likely to invoke in women. Do you think that this response you gave is likely to encourage him to view women more positively? You basically put him down and you also didn't answer his question. What is so negative about asking what he asked anyway? And my response was a factual statement. Some women ARE nutty - obviously the one who's asking about his *dimensions* is a nut, right?
lindya Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 You basically put him down and you also didn't answer his question. What is so negative about asking what he asked anyway? And my response was a factual statement. Some women ARE nutty - obviously the one who's asking about his *dimensions* is a nut, right? Maybe she was just attempting lighthearted banter. Perhaps she just has a fetish for men with large hands and feet. We probably will never find out, because now that we've assessed her as a yucky and mad person, Simons will perhaps decide not to make any more contact with her. Maybe she would have been his dream woman in every respect other than that she likes to indulge in suggestive banter. Who knows? Looking at Simons' post in the context of his other posts today, I think he's generally feeling negative about women. When people are in that frame of mind, they sometimes spend far too much time focusing on and analysing the potential negatives of other people they meet, and not nearly enough time appreciating the positives and simply enjoying the experience of getting to know a new person.
SmoochieFace Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 ...Simons will perhaps decide not to make any more contact with her. God, I hope so. Any woman who starts out with "how big are your hands and feet" is a nut and doesn't deserve consideration from any sane guy. Only desperate and whacked-out types would probably fall for that rubbish. Maybe she would have been his dream woman in every respect other than that she likes to indulge in suggestive banter. Who knows? Looking at Simons' post in the context of his other posts today, I think he's generally feeling negative about women. When people are in that frame of mind, they sometimes spend far too much time focusing on and analysing the potential negatives of other people they meet, and not nearly enough time appreciating the positives and simply enjoying the experience of getting to know a new person. Dream girl... if he likes freaks! I'd be quite negative too if I was faced with that as I don't care for freaks. Besides... she was the one who started out negatively in SIMONS' mind. He has every right to feel the way he does about the situation. If he's not enamoured with those who start things out with weird *beep* then more power to him. I feel the same way about, to be quite frank.
Author Simons Posted March 9, 2006 Author Posted March 9, 2006 Maybe she was just attempting lighthearted banter. Perhaps she just has a fetish for men with large hands and feet. We probably will never find out, because now that we've assessed her as a yucky and mad person, Simons will perhaps decide not to make any more contact with her. Maybe she would have been his dream woman in every respect other than that she likes to indulge in suggestive banter. Who knows? Looking at Simons' post in the context of his other posts today, I think he's generally feeling negative about women. When people are in that frame of mind, they sometimes spend far too much time focusing on and analysing the potential negatives of other people they meet, and not nearly enough time appreciating the positives and simply enjoying the experience of getting to know a new person. Lindya I don't think I was bitching when i asked about the big feet, big hands quiz. By the way my ex was a very classy woman. I thought this lady i met online was classy otherwise i would have not been putting 1 month of my time talking to her. I think women once they get easy with you, they start being silly. Testing, playing games and asking such stupid questions like the big feet, big hands. Lindya, I am trying to understand women since my last gf. I want to know what i did wrong in that relationship so i can improve. I thought there is more to big feet, say big dick compared to the entire me as a package. How many women will go for a taller man???. you included!
Author Simons Posted March 9, 2006 Author Posted March 9, 2006 Lindya, just to make you laugh:: According to study done by a Korean scientist, a man's hand and foot size doesn't have any relation to the size of his penis. The question is begged to be asked - how much can you girls trust a guy to do this research? Especially when his own measurements (both hands and feet), are conspicuously missing.
lindya Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Lindya I don't think I was bitching when i asked about the big feet, big hands quiz. By the way my ex was a very classy woman. I thought this lady i met online was classy otherwise i would have not been putting 1 month of my time talking to her. I think women once they get easy with you, they start being silly. Testing, playing games and asking such stupid questions like the big feet, big hands. What if it really was just banter? The best person to ask is her. It needn't be a big deal asking - just something like "Is this just banter or do you have some sort of big-foot fetish? Or is this an attempt to discreetly find out something a little more intimate about me??" Lindya, I am trying to understand women since my last gf. I want to know what i did wrong in that relationship so i can improve. I thought there is more to big feet, say big dick compared to the entire me as a package. Look through this board, and you'll see people having slightly sexualised banter with eachother all the time. Maybe she was just bantering with you, maybe not. I think it's impossible for any of us to tell based on limited information. I think when it comes to having successful relationships with other people, the fundamental thing is to understand yourself. What's your temperament (eg introvert, extrovert, creative, logical etc). What sort of person are you comfortable with, and what sort of person sets you on edge? I think that the more certain you feel about who you are and what you want, the more likely you are to attract likeminded people. There are always men on this board trying to pinpoint just what it is that women want. They'll never find a suitable explanation for the very obvious reason that women, like men, are more than just a combination of various biological drives and functions. There is no single man who has universal appeal. Some men are more successful than others because they have the confidence to approach more women (and, it follows, get more rejections....and, following from that develop a thicker skin in response to rejection. Shrug it off more easily). They might seem more successful, but as with success in most areas, it has less to do with luck and more to do with perseverance and a positive attitude. How many women will go for a taller man???. you included! Taller than me, you mean? I do prefer the guy to be slightly taller than me. Most are, as I'm not very tall myself. On the other hand, if I met someone who I totally hit it off with and he was smaller than me then that would be my guy....and I'd pick him over the tall guy who I had less in common with. By the same token, lots of men talk about preferring women with big boobs, but when it comes to the crunch most would go with the person they fell in love with - whether or not she had big boobs. Obviously there will always be some people who restrict themselves to partners who tick certain boxes, but it's not usually too hard to figure out who those people are. According to study done by a Korean scientist, a man's hand and foot size doesn't have any relation to the size of his penis. I didn't need a Korean scientist to tell me that!
silverbeamer Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I've always heard that big hands means big gloves... the same goes with the big feet means big shoes. I know from my own experience I like it when my man is bigger then me in height and weight and hands and feet. It makes me feel safe when we're snuggling. But I'm guessing that she was just trying to make some light-hearted convo. Don't stress bout it.
Yamaha Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Some men are more successful than others because they have the confidence to approach more women (and, it follows, get more rejections....and, following from that develop a thicker skin in response to rejection. Shrug it off more easily). They might seem more successful, but as with success in most areas, it has less to do with luck and more to do with perseverance and a positive attitude. I have to agree with Lindya on this point. Many so called players are sussessful because they ask many women and don't let rejection sway them. Most guys are not that confident in themselves and would become depressed or have an ego problem if lots of women turned them down. You can't take a "no" personally and just move on to the next.
Barby Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I didn't read all the responses but........in my personal experience the lovers I've had....the ones with small hands have indeed had small ***packages*** and the ones with the larger thicker hands have had.......well you know. The big feet thing........I haven't known to be true.
alphamale Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 I have to agree with Lindya on this point. Many so called players are sussessful because they ask many women and don't let rejection sway them. exactly YAMMIE....if I ask 10 women out maybe 2 will say yes. Then I take them both out and one blows me off and the other ends up having sex with me. Thats the way it workl.
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