Guest Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 By boyfriend of 3 years is going to las vegas for three days with his friends for a bachelor party. Should I be worried? What really goes on at these things?? I'm not really worried about strip clubs but just that they might have a "private" show in the room or something and I've seen what goes on at those, it's quite disgusting. Please help!! Link to post Share on other sites
rude dude Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 By boyfriend of 3 years is going to las vegas for three days with his friends for a bachelor party. Should I be worried? What really goes on at these things?? I'm not really worried about strip clubs but just that they might have a "private" show in the room or something and I've seen what goes on at those, it's quite disgusting. Please help!! A bachelor party, Oh my god! How childish is this guy? Why anyone would pay to see a woman they can't touch. Un-real Link to post Share on other sites
MadDog Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 A bachelor party, Oh my god! How childish is this guy? Why anyone would pay to see a woman they can't touch. Un-real What are you talking about? Just cause a guy wants to have a bachelor party doesn't mean he's childish. I know when my good buddies get married I'm going to throw them a bachelor party. It's just a chance to have fun before they get married. So I guess you only pay for a woman if you can touch her? Now that's immature! The issue here is trust. It doesn't really matter how slutty the strippers are or how crazy things get. If your boyfriend respects you, he'll make sure not to cross the line at the bachelor party. Just talk to your boyfriend and let him know your concerns but reassure him that you trust him. It's always good if he knows how you're feeling. If he's cool he'll tell you you have nothing to worry about and you really won't. MD Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 Ugh, bachelor parties are AWFUL for the girlfriend. But they are SO important to the guys. It's not about the strippers or the hookers, it's about spending time with your friends. All guys go to strip clubs for their bachelor parties and bad stuff happens. But, you have to just trust that he will not do anything to risk his relationship with you, and then just don't ask any questions you don't want the answers to. I've already BEGGED my boyfriend's friends not to tell me ANYTHING that happens. I'm not going to see him for about 3-4 days afterwards, so all the glitter is washed off by the time I see him. I worry about this CONSTANTLY, beyond the point of reason. He loves you. He isn't going to do anything. If he had a thing for strippers, he would already have cheated and you would already have left. It's more about guys embarassing each other and being gross and nasty guys. Plan a get together with your friends that night and be sure you are out having a blast and don't drink too much. If you're like me, have one of your friends take your phone away so you don't do any drunk dialing or drunk texting, just in case you get a fit of crazy insecurity. It's about his friends, it's not about having sex with other women. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 A bachelor party, Oh my god! How childish is this guy? Why anyone would pay to see a woman they can't touch. Un-real Because in Vegas you can touch em and a whole lot more! Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 Because in Vegas you can touch em and a whole lot more! You can in Texas too. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 You can in Texas too. They have legal prostitutes in TX? Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 They have legal prostitutes in TX? Oh honey. Have you ever heard of the Chicken Ranch? It's not "legal" per se, but the cop getting a blow job in the next room sure as hell isn't going to cite you for it. Link to post Share on other sites
rude dude Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 That's right, keep these your ideas coming. They sound great so far.......JEEZ Link to post Share on other sites
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