smitty Posted March 11, 2006 Share Posted March 11, 2006 Hey everyone newbie here. my exgirlfriend just broke up with me on wed after a 1 year relationship both in our early 20's and it seemed to come out of nowhere. i want to talk to here and find out what happened and maybe try to work it out and the two of us get a second chance. worse case scenario i want some closure. i need advice on how long to wait to contact her or wait for her to do it. i know there is a chance this could be OK in fact a good chance but I'm not sure on the timing or initiation. any help or comments would be most helpful and appreciated. thanks smitty Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted March 11, 2006 Share Posted March 11, 2006 Sorry to break it to you Smitty, but it's over. Your break-up seemed to come out of nowhere to YOU; not to HER. What happened is that you gradually lowered her interest level, probably over the last three to four months, and she finally decided she had enough and dumped you. When do you contact her again? Never. Just stay away from her, and don't answer calls or e-mails from her. Get some new phone numbers, and this will all pass in about a month. Link to post Share on other sites
qnmc Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 The odds of this getting back on track are very slim, sorry man it's just the way it is. Once someone makes up their mind that they want to breakup, especially women, there's no going back. I know your pain. Let's say there is some hope, though, you will only hurt things by contacting her. The best thing you can do is become like a ghost in her life. If anything it will probably confuse her that you're not begging her to come back. Contacting her will more than likely only reinforce her decision to leave. Let her try to contact you several times over the next week or two before you allow her to speak with you. Above all, as hard as it is, maintain your dignity through this. Do not say or do anything you'll later regret. Link to post Share on other sites
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