Sophia20 Posted March 11, 2006 Posted March 11, 2006 Hi guys this is a bit of a strange question but here goes lol.. Obviously there are blatant signs when a guy's in the mood but what about shy guys that are scared to make the first move? For example, are there any signs to look for when a guy that you've been dating for a while is in the mood to get naughty? (assuming that he's too shy to do anything about it!) Will he act a certain way or say something subtle.. This is the first "shy guy" I've been with as I'm used to quite confident guys hence the weird question! Thanks to anyone that replies
country gal Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 why wait for him to make the move? if you both feel that comfortable wiht each other, the worst that will happen is he'll say he's not ready - and lets face it, the chances of htat are pretty slim!! on the flipside if you arent comfortable enough wiht him yet - e.g. you are afraid of what he'll htink of you if you make the move - then i would suggest you wait a little while longer until you are at that point .... have fun!
justagirliegirl Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 What is wrong with you making the first move? He'd probably love it and be relieved!
eberex Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 i'm a little bit shy and what helped me in that situation was my girl asking me if i'm nervouse about making the first move and that its no problem if she help toloosen me. and it worked! just ask him if u really know he is in the mood.
jerbear Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 One of my ex's made the first move and it was quite scary and fun at the same time. After she made the first move the first time. I would say why don't make the first move on him set the mood first. Work up to it. After that I've learned to be more agressive and actually start it.
flavius Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 Mad D got it right! If he's male and with you he's in the mood. (Heck, I get worked up just seeing all the pink on the borders of the LoveShack pages...) But remember, he may have a moral determination to keep his pants on. Doesn't mean he's a limp-diqk, but it will make him steer clear of a situation where he'll wake up with his pants around his ankles and your panties around his neck. If that's his deal then he will appear more and more shy the hotter things get. That might make a poor prospect for casual sex, but if you DO really dig him you can always just keep it above the waist and then go rub-the-monkey on your own time. It's worked for a thousand generations of horny youth! It takes serious balls to keep your cherry these days. That kind of balls says a lot about a person.
Groovy Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 If it were me I would instigate something to let him know I am ready but be a little cautious. If you like this guy for a realtionship then initiating sex as the female is a little risque! He may respect you after or than again, not. Just be aware you may be judged later but if you are just looking for a good time than go for it!
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