Wanderer Posted September 11, 2001 Share Posted September 11, 2001 I'm in a long term relationship right now with a girl whom I know I would like to marry. Anyways she's in last year of university and I feel that she is distancing herself from me. I asked her what the problem was and she said that nothing was wrong. The first two years of our relationship was BEAUTIFUL! But all of the sudden she started hanging out with friends to the wee hours of the morning and seeing less of me. I trust her fully but I feel that she is trying to tell me something because of the body language she emmits when she's around me. I might be overreacting. Her sister tells me she's loves me totally and I trust her sister but I don't know why I feel she's trying to give me the boot in a nice way. Should I make the move and tell her what I feel or should I hold on and see what happens. Please give me some feed back! Link to post Share on other sites
BeenThere Posted September 11, 2001 Share Posted September 11, 2001 Simply tell her you are feeling some distancing from her, whether real or imagined. Ask her if there is something wrong... I'm in a long term relationship right now with a girl whom I know I would like to marry. Anyways she's in last year of university and I feel that she is distancing herself from me. I asked her what the problem was and she said that nothing was wrong. The first two years of our relationship was BEAUTIFUL! But all of the sudden she started hanging out with friends to the wee hours of the morning and seeing less of me. I trust her fully but I feel that she is trying to tell me something because of the body language she emmits when she's around me. I might be overreacting. Her sister tells me she's loves me totally and I trust her sister but I don't know why I feel she's trying to give me the boot in a nice way. Should I make the move and tell her what I feel or should I hold on and see what happens. Please give me some feed back! Link to post Share on other sites
marzipan75 Posted September 12, 2001 Share Posted September 12, 2001 Tell her how you feel. It's the only way you will ever know the truth. Don't be afraid, it's killing you not knowing so do it soon. Tell her the truth, tell her how you are feeling, cause she's the only one who can confirm if what you are feeling is coming from her or you. Tell her and you will feel better for knowing whatever the answer is. Hope that helps. marz I'm in a long term relationship right now with a girl whom I know I would like to marry. Anyways she's in last year of university and I feel that she is distancing herself from me. I asked her what the problem was and she said that nothing was wrong. The first two years of our relationship was BEAUTIFUL! But all of the sudden she started hanging out with friends to the wee hours of the morning and seeing less of me. I trust her fully but I feel that she is trying to tell me something because of the body language she emmits when she's around me. I might be overreacting. Her sister tells me she's loves me totally and I trust her sister but I don't know why I feel she's trying to give me the boot in a nice way. Should I make the move and tell her what I feel or should I hold on and see what happens. Please give me some feed back! Link to post Share on other sites
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