Is this a sign?

[Guest]

I tried to post this once, but do not see it so here goes again.

 

I need your advice on something.

 

I dated someone for 6 months, fell hard for her. Suddenly, things just fell apart, confusingly and in a bad way. I have not talked to her much in the past 6 months. We do see eachother and run in to eachother in passing. The only person who can make my heart race 200 mph, make me speechless and have me standing there staring at those eyes in absolute amazement is her. I am divorced and have never felt that way before.

 

Any way, after running in to her a few weeks ago, she sensed I was down and sent a very nice, sweet email asking if all is o.k. It was her bday this week and I sent a card (I planned on sending this long before she sent the email) wishing her a Happy Birthday. I know her life has been stressful and I just wanted to make sure she knew that I was thinking of her on her birthday and that I do wish her the best.

 

I received a very nice thank you email from her that ended in "don't be a stranger". Question is, what does she mean by that? I have sat here respecting her wishes to be alone. And, I do not want to in any way disrespect her wishes from before nor do I want to cross the line with her and push her farther away. She is too important to me. So, I am confused and just would like others opinions and advice please.

[amaysngrace]

I received a very nice thank you email from her that ended in "don't be a stranger". Question is, what does she mean by that?

 

i think it means she is a thoughtful person and wanted to acknowledge the fact that you remembered her special day. but i also think she wants nothing more than friendship from you at this time.

[dario]

Don't be a stranger....hell, could mean just that. Don't be a stranger. Give it some time and then acknowledge that you've been thinking of her....

 

Why not, huh? Give it a shot. If you can cope with any downfall then you're okay.