A really situation, for me and my ex

[Guest]

I had a fight with my ex and he told me he wants to break up, I felt really bad and slept with a guy from work that I know for just as long as me and my ex were dating. I just wanted to make sure I don't get back with my ex because I felt we weren't happy and things weren't going well.

 

I am very confused, I dont really like the guy from work in a romantic way but I see him every day and I have alot in common with him. My ex has alot of good qualities too that I like, but there are things I dont like, sometimes the way he acts creepes me out, and I think he is crazy.

 

I dont think I feel romantic towards any guy right now and I dont want to have sex with anoyone. My Ex wants to forgive me for what I did and get back but I dont feel like I can, not after what has happened and there is also this other guy that I now have feelings for at work but I dont really want him as my bf either.. plus I see him everyday so it really makes it hard to get back with my ex.

 

My Ex seems to be in alot of pain, and I feel bad but I think it would be wrong to get back together, i think he should go out with other people. Right now I feel I should focus on myself, school, new friends, and just having fun. I have been with my ex for almost 5 years and we havent done anything, things are same as they were 5 years ago, we didn't move out, and didn't make any plans together. I really don't know what to do in this situation.

[MadDog]

There are two things I suggest you do here:

 

1. Stay broken up with your ex

2. Just stay single for a while

 

This will help you clear your mind and figure out what you really need right now out of life, relationships, etc. Good luck.

 

MD

[yawhatever]

Women like yourself are so messed up, never know what you want or see things clearly..