catgirl1927 Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 He sounds like a controlling psycho to me. You need to confront him and be like, what is the deal? Force feeding heaping forkfuls of food into your mouth is borderline abusive. Good lord. Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Okay, sophia34 had really good advice....so that is what I have been doing.....waiting until he comes home to eat, even though eating that late is not really good. But here is my problem.....he tries to *FEED* me...shoveling forkfuls of food in my mouth. We share a plate, and it is heaped with more than enough for the both of us, but I can feed myself, you know? I will be in the middle of chewing one forkful and he is already trying to shove another one in my mouth. When I tell him to stop, that I can feed myself, he gets angry and says that its late, he is tired and doesnt have time and to hurry up and eat it.... Because I feel so pressured, I eat it. Then it is straight on to the sweet stuff. Last night it was double fudge chocolate cake with big gobs of chocolate and caramel frosting and lots of double fudge ice cream....which he kept cramming in my mouth, big globs of frosting with ice cream until I finally told him I was full. He still kept insisting, but I just got up and walked away. I had enough. I asked him again if he thought I was too skinny, truthfully, and he said yes..I said, do I look sickly skinny? and he said yes. I asked him if other people thought I was too skinny and he said yes. I asked a woman if she thought I was TOO skinny and if I looked sickly and she looked at me as if I had 2 heads.....she said "definately not" and "not even close".....and told me if I did, she woudl be the first to tell me....what is going on??? One solution to this would be 2 forks and 2 plates.. Link to post Share on other sites
Pink_Tulip Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 He sounds like a controlling psycho to me. You need to confront him and be like, what is the deal? Force feeding heaping forkfuls of food into your mouth is borderline abusive. Good lord. Lol, my thoughts exactly. You really need to seriously talk to him about this. Link to post Share on other sites
sophia34 Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Yeah, I agree with the above. You've now eaten in front of him, and that does not seem to get him to stop obsessing about it. So now you know there's something wrong on HIS side of the equation, not yours. Plus, having him stuff food in your mouth, after you've asked him to cut it out, is walking a fine line between controlling and abusive. Perhaps he hasn't crossed that line yet, but it sounds like it's not going to better. Even if you were too skinny--and it doesn't sound like you are--trying to stuff sweets and cake down your throat is horrible. You need to tell him how much his behavior is affecting you, affecting the relationship, and that he needs to stop. If he doesn't, then you'll probably need to decide how much of it you can put up with before moving on. Link to post Share on other sites
Bogun Posted March 25, 2006 Share Posted March 25, 2006 Slap the guy, he's being an ass. Next time he tries to shove food in your mouth ask him if he wants to wipe your ass too next time you take dump. Link to post Share on other sites
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