Good Guy Posted September 14, 2001 Share Posted September 14, 2001 My exgirlfriend and I broke up a week ago. She basically flipped out one night and choked and bit me because of her stress on that her father has been diagnosed with cancer. Anyway, we broke up and I bought her a plane ticket to her hometown in GA....I live in TX. She is pretty understanding on that she messed this relatonship up and she "says" she will respect my final decision on "us". Anyway, I decided to never get back wth her....the problem is that her personal car is still here....I found two friends of mine that are going to take it there on Sunday. My question is what is the best way to tell her that there is no chance of us ever getting back together without it getting nasty..... Link to post Share on other sites
midori Posted September 14, 2001 Share Posted September 14, 2001 Return the car as you've planned, and make sure that any other personal items she might have left behind are in it. Then close the door. Friendship isn't going to be possible given the nature of your break-up. Tell her you'll always wish her well but that you don't wish to hear from her. Don't set a time-frame, don't give any appearance of being the least little bit open to reconsidering this decision. You don't need to be nasty at all; in fact that would be a mistake because then there will be that between the two of you, for you to regret later. I really do think that when you make up your mind to end it with someone, it is best to do so conclusively, leaving no room for doubt in a reasonable mind that it is final. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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