freelove Posted March 20, 2006 Share Posted March 20, 2006 So my ex has decided to give me a second chance. Things have been going great and we have been spending some real quality time together and having lots of fun. Before the break-up we had a really active sexual relationship, maybe up to five times a week. Since getting back together, I'd be lucky if it's now once a week. I know it's not the be all and and end all of a relationship and I know I should just be happy that we are moving forward again, but in a way it gets to me a bit. When I called her on it she said she knows that our sex life is not what it use to be, and that I just need to give it some time. Is that a warning sign or should I just be patient with her, be romantic and just be supportive of however she is feeling? Thanks for the advice! Link to post Share on other sites
Still_In_Love Posted March 20, 2006 Share Posted March 20, 2006 Be patient. Give her romance, love and support. She asked you to give her time, give her all the time she needs. Good luck and congratulations on getting a second chance! Link to post Share on other sites
justhavetoletgo Posted March 20, 2006 Share Posted March 20, 2006 it will take time good luck man hope it works out for you Link to post Share on other sites
destination_unknown Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 Do not push her, try to understand that she may need a LONG time to really trust you again, you dont want to push her so that she feels trapped in the sense of giving you more than she is ready to. It will happen if your patient. Glad somebody's at least getting some! Link to post Share on other sites
Author freelove Posted March 21, 2006 Author Share Posted March 21, 2006 Not pushing at all, just giving love and support and letting her lead. Just not too sure on how to read it. I guess you're right, just need to give it time and not get upset about it. I am blessed to have been given another chance and I have learnt my lessons. I'm sure when the time is right, it will be more than I could ask for!! Link to post Share on other sites
prfrogkisser Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 If trust was lost it takes a lot of work to get that back. I dont know why you guys broke up but just by the no sex thing it seems she was and still is hurt and is trying to let go little by little. Sex for women is something we only share (most of us) with someone you love. When that person who we gave ourselves to hurt us its very hard to go back to how things were. If you really love her be patient and understanding. I recommend the book: Light her Fire by Ellen Kreidman. It points out all the things that made you fall in love the 1st time and how you can rekindle that feeling. She also has a website www.lightyourfire.com check it out Link to post Share on other sites
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