claytdd Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 im 16, the one thing that gets to me all the time is that why i have never had a girlfriend in my life. is it because im ugly or is it because im indian?? i dont know, it really bothers me everyday. it maybe because im not doing anything right. can anyone please suggest what ways i can get it right. thanks to anyone who helps. Link to post Share on other sites
Mymy Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 all i can say is im nearly 20, not ugly (most say im cute) but slightly overweight and never had a boyfriend. I have a few guys friends who are 18 to 20 and who never had a girlfriend either ^^ I don't think you should worry... its best to get with someone you'll really like than have girlfriends but never one you'll keep ^^ Link to post Share on other sites
Sadly Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 Don't rush it. I had a friend, who was 15, and everyday would complain, complain about not being able to find a b/f. She would even mention commiting suicide if she didnt find a b/f by her 16 b-day. Well, she rushed things so much that she got married 2 months after she met this guy, dropped out of school, has 2 kids. And now, her and her husband are struggling to get by, day to day. She regrets everything!! The fact that she couldnt enjoy her high school yrs. Couldnt go to college, have a room-mate, or JUST HANG OUT with friends, not her partner, but friends. The point is, to let it be. That special person will come, dont rush it. Dont rush your self into a relationship you can later regret. Link to post Share on other sites
Author claytdd Posted March 21, 2006 Author Share Posted March 21, 2006 the this is that im the only person in my year in school who has never had a g/f i have not told any one about this. thats the thing that winds me up, being the odd one out. Link to post Share on other sites
NTB Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 i have never had a girfriend consider yourself lucky.........they are too much work Link to post Share on other sites
JohnM Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 Well i'm a pretty good looking guy and i'm 19. My problem is i'm just a bit shy, not only have i never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed... Link to post Share on other sites
Dinnj1 Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 Well i'm a pretty good looking guy and i'm 19. My problem is i'm just a bit shy, not only have i never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed... are you in a bubble? Link to post Share on other sites
JohnM Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 I wish i was the boy in the bubble from the film 'Bubble Boy'. That girl was hot! Link to post Share on other sites
Dinnj1 Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 I wish i was the boy in the bubble from the film 'Bubble Boy'. That girl was hot! yes she was... and you my friend, at 19.... have nothing to worry about... just alot of catching up to do... Link to post Share on other sites
JohnM Posted March 21, 2006 Share Posted March 21, 2006 Tell me about it Link to post Share on other sites
Author claytdd Posted March 22, 2006 Author Share Posted March 22, 2006 same here, iv never been kissed, im a little shy, too. i just dont know what to say to girls. Link to post Share on other sites
Mymy Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 lol, never been kissed either ^^ I really found it funny : and you my friend, at 19.... have nothing to worry about... just alot of catching up to do... Link to post Share on other sites
CrashIntoMe Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 I think its very cute when a guy has never had a girlfriend before. Maybe I'm weird, but I like inexperienced guys. Link to post Share on other sites
JohnM Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Feel free to fly on over to me Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 What do you look like ? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 im 16, the one thing that gets to me all the time is that why i have never had a girlfriend in my life. is it because im ugly or is it because im indian?? i dont know, it really bothers me everyday. it maybe because im not doing anything right. can anyone please suggest what ways i can get it right. thanks to anyone who helps. well for one thang, no matter what you look like.. or what you are there is always a girl that is gunna fall in love with you. maybe you should find one girl that you would like to be with and focus on what she likes and start up a conversation w/her.. take her to lunch maybe if that goes well then maybe plan for other dates! good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 You are 16 - why would you want a girlfriend??? TV shows and movies are just that - entertainment!! I have always been an attractive, skinny girl. But I didn't kiss anyone until I was 23, and later I married him. We've been married 10 years. I can never understand why a teenager would want a girlfriend or boyfriend. You guys haven't even finished "growing" yet!! Do you know who you are? Do you know what you want to be? Do you know what you want out of life? If you just want to be a fly on the wall, then you can disregard this post. Link to post Share on other sites
ImWithHim Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 I would suspect there are a lot of people in your school that have not been in a relationship. I'm sure that you're not the only one. They are just really good at fibbing and saying they have had dates and whatnot when they really have not. Don't be too hard on yourself, you're still really young. Link to post Share on other sites
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