djrdei Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 ok here is my deal, I was student teaching at a school and the art teacher there was really cute. I know she is single, and we talked a lot everyday. Everytime she would see me looking at her she would give me a huge smile. Also, oneday she put in her email account on the computer i was on and then left to help a student, i think she did this for me to know her personal email. She is 27, im 22 but we seem to get along great and we have a lot in common, I am a quiet person and she seems quiet too. So I am no longer student teaching there, and now i am thinking about sending her an email to ask her out one evening. How should i go about this? I just dont wanna sound like a stalker or like i am desperate. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 don't....if will fail miserably Just pick up the phone and call her.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author djrdei Posted March 22, 2006 Author Share Posted March 22, 2006 i dont have her number, and i cant call her at school. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 i dont have her number, and i cant call her at school. then you got nothing.. the fact that you guys have never exchanged emails before would make it stalkerish.. and no she didn't leave her email open so you could get her email.. Then visit her class at school and ask her in person.. pick a time you know she is in between classes Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 i wouldn't just email her and ask her out. i would first email her and tell her you miss talking to her, give her your phone number and ask her for hers. and take it from there... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 i wouldn't just email her and ask her out. i would first email her and tell her you miss talking to her, give her your phone number and ask her for hers. and take it from there... That is a good idea.. But it is her personal email not the school email.. Maybe you could email her school email addy instead Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 hey A_C...you beat me to this! i thought i was gonna be the first one to respond....bum.... Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 i wasn't saying you're a bum...it's just an expression i use when i'm bummed... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 i wasn't saying you're a bum...it's just an expression i use when i'm bummed... I know.... Scabs the clown is kinda bummy though Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 Scabs the clown is kinda bummy though yeah, so is pennyworth Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 drjdei, couldn't you get a thinking of you card and put it in her faculty mailbox with your phone number? Link to post Share on other sites
Author djrdei Posted March 22, 2006 Author Share Posted March 22, 2006 drjdei, couldn't you get a thinking of you card and put it in her faculty mailbox with your phone number? Well my problem is right now I am at a different school for my 2nd placement so i do not see her at all anymore. SO this makes it tough for me to stop by because im in school all day almost an hour away now. The card in the teacher mailbox is an idea i thought of, but i know for a fact the office must approve anything that goes into the mailboxes, so that may not fly. I wish i knew what to do, I really wanted to say something before i left but i wanted to remain a professional. I was just planning on emailing her and saying hows it going and i miss talkint to you and see if she would respond. then if that worked id take it from there. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 I honestly think you need to take an hour to go to the school and visit her. I would say something like this " Hey Lisa I just stopped by to say hello and I sure miss our chats. Would you like to go to dinner this Saturday ?" That way you made it a point to go out of your way , ask her, and if she looks mortified or something , then you can back off a little. If she smiles and says "Sure" then she likes you. ( Consider in the factor of : She might have plans that night and she might truly be busy so give her chance to reschedule ) Link to post Share on other sites
TheSwordfish Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 My rule on this is as follows, you will not be a stalker if you get the adress from her in person. I had this girl I asked her for her MSN adress, wich was stupid in teh first place. She gave it to me. After that I relaly wnated to call her, but I asked her phonenumber on MSN. I alreday knew her phone number, but I didn't want to call before she gave it to me herself. Maybe you could do this: Sent her an E-mail and explain that you couldn't recah her in person and that you just wanted to check how she's doing, and ask if you can have her number. Shouldn't be that stalkerish. Link to post Share on other sites
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