figgurinoutlife Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 I cut my ex off again cause I am sick of her getting angry with me for everything and being jealous of everything I have and have worked for. She claimed before that another reason she gets angry with me so often is cause there's so much sexual tension between us. Throughout the 2 years we've known each other she's been very posessive with me, and loved me tons, and told me last Oct. that she was still in love with me. I have started NC almost a month ago and told her I am done with her for good and she acted like she didn't believe me and didn't really show much emotion. I am wanting her to stop treating me like shi* and have a little respect for me so I am doing NC. She has tried to call approx. 5 times since I cut her off, I haven't answered, and she leaves no voicemails. She also sends me texts, maybe one a week. First one she said she was moving at the end of next month and that I wouldn't have to see her again, and thanked me for being in her life and being part of it, and that she would miss me. The 2nd one she sent a week later was to inform me that our apt. complex was on fire (we live in the same complex) and come to find out it was the basement in a building on the other side. 3rd one was to inform me that her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, who hates me (don't know what he is) was coming up to my work which is a public city building. Like I cared he was coming up there! He just walked right past me and went and took care of his business. Today they both decide to come up to the city building, walk past me with my ex acting subtly obnoxious when she passed me. I pretended like I didn't see her. Then when they left my ex shouted "HI" with a huge sarcastic ***hole smile. I glared at her, then did a what's up nod. I then heard my ex mumble "what'd I ever do to him?" to her boyfriend. Then she texts me 5 min. later and says "you want to be shi*** to me, thats fine. You are no better than the rest of us, but who am I to judge, right?" I didn't reply and havent replied to any of her texts or answered her calls. She went from asking me if I would date her again (which I probably would have,) to treating me like sh**, all in a week! It was only a month ago that she said she would date me again and was acting interested. Then she flipped on me. So I cut her off for good. She has always had a hard time with expressing emotions. I am just interested if anyone could analyze what she's doing here. Link to post Share on other sites
mitchilicious Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 you know what i think she's a phsyco...she's too obsess for you....try to find time for her...and tell her again that you dont like her anymore all is done....or try to find a new girl....and show off that you have a new one...try it....and it still it wont work....well.....kill her!!! jk...lol....anyway...goodluck.... Link to post Share on other sites
destination_unknown Posted March 22, 2006 Share Posted March 22, 2006 So what do you actually want? Do you... a) want to be with this girl but want her to not be so possessive b) not be with this girl analyze her behaviour - she is doing everything she possibly can to be with you but in a kind of immature and selfish way. however, i think she is in alot of turmoil about the ending of your relationship so thats probably why her attempts to get you back seem so silly and keep changing tactics. she is kind of trying to control how you feel about her, i.e. "feel sorry for me because im such a big burden to you im going to move", "our building is on fire, this is very dramatic and i could be injured so that might make you wake up and realise that this is a silly mistake", "i have a boy to make you jealous" and the reason she is saying mean things is becuase she is mad that her plots havent work and is interpreting your NC / breaking up with her as you simply being a baxtard instead of maybe seeing your side. i feel quite bad for doing that lil analysis there because who am i to say what is going through though her head, i reckon that she is hurting bad though so try to understand thats where her *crazyness* is coming from. Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 I only needed to read the first few paragraphs of your post. Change your phone number and block her e-mail address if you have to. Link to post Share on other sites
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