women fall in love more often;25% of males are "in love" before the fourth date

[justagirliegirl]

Tell that to your mom ..

 

that is a BS cop Out.. We are all here to reproduce and try to reproduce and most of us DO believe in the institution of Marriage

 

My mother always said, "Don't take seriously what was poked at you in fun. ";)

[justagirliegirl]

So now you are in a quandary.

 

Go for the *decent guy* who isn't *flashy* or go for the a**h*** who is *all that*. Some choice, huh?

 

So this brings up another question... why do women assume that most *decent guys* are neither *flashy* nor *charismatic*?

 

My dad wasn't flashy but he was a very decent guy. He wasn't a loud mouth, cheat, or disrespectful to my mom.

[basscatcher]

that is a BS cop Out.. We are all here to reproduce and try to reproduce and most of us DO believe in the institution of Marriage

 

Some of us might not be able to reproduce (by choice) so that isn't always the truth.

 

I believe in the SACRAMENT of Marriage

[SmoochieFace]

Some of us might not be able to reproduce (by choice) so that isn't always the truth.

 

I believe in the SACRAMENT of Marriage

 

And not everyone wants kids either...

[blind_otter]

So now you are in a quandary.

 

Go for the *decent guy* who isn't *flashy* or go for the a**h*** who is *all that*. Some choice, huh?

 

So this brings up another question... why do women assume that most *decent guys* are neither *flashy* nor *charismatic*?

 

I guess I am drawn to fascinating people, the kind who have complex pasts and stories to tell. Those people have usually had a lot happen to them, and as a result they can have "issues".

[kitten chick]

Well, then it's quite possible that some qualities that are highly sought after by women are the same qualities that are not commonly found in *decent guys*.

 

This could explain the *I want a decent guy but always end up with jerk guy* behaviour...

You could explain it but it wouldn't do you any good since I've heard alpha explain it a thousand times and also because it didn't apply to me.

[basscatcher]

And not everyone wants kids either...

 

I wanted them but I was told that I may not be able to have any more..

I might consider trying if the right man was in my life soon. But--I think there is little chance this will happen. Charlie doesn't want anymore. He has 4 and I don't know where he and I are heading.. I already feel alone..

 

Some men want children but they don't want to start till they are 40 and I might not be able too.

 

If a man doesn't want children I get a little shakey about them. If they have a bunch of kids already then I'm ok with it other then I want him to want to involve me with his kids. I don't want to be segragated from them. I want to bond with them.. I would love to be a step-mommy..

If I can't have anymore I at least want to be apart of my SOs childrens lives..

 

If a man doesn't want kids then I can't have him.. Period.. Kids are a part of my life.. Kids are in my life... Not just my own son but my nephews and gfs children also my God-children.,..