kaneplacegirl Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 My male friend stop talking to me and I dont know why? I decided to give him his distance but what else can I do. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 My male friend stop talking to me and I dont know why? I decided to give him his distance but what else can I do. He might have been busy. He might have lost interests. He might have gotten a new friend. What you can do is give him space and in a week or so; give him a call and see what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
sazzya1987 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 My male friend stop talking to me and I dont know why? I decided to give him his distance but what else can I do. It probably doesn't mean anything, it could just be that his busy and hasn't had time to talk to you or anything. I'm sure he will get in contact with you or you get in contact with him to see if you two can do anything. Would there be a reason why he would be mad at you? If not then maybe you could be over reacting. So just see what happens in a week then give him a call and see if you two would like to hang out or something. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 What were things like before he stopped talking to you? I can tell you this, most men don't think of how their actions are going to be read into by a woman friend. He could be busy, or in a bad mood, not wanting to talk to anybody. Don't read into it. If you two are good enough friends, then YOU call him and ask him what's going on? Don't make a huge issue out of it, just say you miss him and hope all is well - That you look forward to spending time with him again when he is feeling up to it. Link to post Share on other sites
babbah Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 you must talk to him no matter what... u guys need to talk. that is the only way you can find the answers to your questions. *wishing you goodluck* Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaneplacegirl Posted March 24, 2006 Author Share Posted March 24, 2006 thank you! for the help I have decided to wait a few weeks and give him a call. Nothing has happended to make him annoyed at me. But I need to feel good about this and you all have helped !! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Just remember guys minds work differently than women's. Men are NOT bitchy in the sense of letting things bug them, hold on to it and let it fester. SO, chances are, even if you did piss him off, he'll forget anyway and it won't be a big deal. I'm sure your friend is very laid back and it's more "out of sight, out of mind". But don't take that personally...Just how their minds work and it doesn't mean he doesn't like ya. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest** Posted March 25, 2006 Share Posted March 25, 2006 Why wait a few weeks? Why not tomorrow? A concerned friend could call and see if things are okay. Yes, he could be busy, he could be ill, injured, taken hostage...the list goes on. It wouldn't hurt to give a call and see what's up...as a friend. ** Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaneplacegirl Posted March 26, 2006 Author Share Posted March 26, 2006 maybe I should give this person a call. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kaneplacegirl Posted March 29, 2006 Author Share Posted March 29, 2006 no responds I am done I tried Link to post Share on other sites
basebll06 Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Tell him that you are serious. If he doesnt listen, take legal action if that exists Link to post Share on other sites
PlentyLV007 Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Just remember guys minds work differently than women's. Men are NOT bitchy in the sense of letting things bug them, hold on to it and let it fester. SO, chances are, even if you did piss him off, he'll forget anyway and it won't be a big deal. I'm sure your friend is very laid back and it's more "out of sight, out of mind". But don't take that personally...Just how their minds work and it doesn't mean he doesn't like ya. That's not true!!! I've met a lot of guys that are just like chicks!!! I hate it....I happen to run into them. Though it balances out for me though since I'm aggressive! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest** Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 KPG How many tries with no response? Hi "male friend" this is "KPG" just think'in about you and wondered how you are doing. Give me a call back if you can. Was your message anything like this? Just curious, could you elaborate on how you initiated the contact? ** Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 no responds I am done I tried Is it possible something has happened to him? Or he is out of Town and forgot to mention it to you? What was the last conversation you had with him? Don't be done, just give him time. Unless you feel it's something else, another reason? Is there more to this story that you haven't shared? Tell him that you are serious. If he doesnt listen, take legal action if that exists Take legal action because a male friend isn't calling her back? That makes no sense to me, unless you're joking around?? That's not true!!! I've met a lot of guys that are just like chicks!!! I hate it....I happen to run into them. Though it balances out for me though since I'm aggressive! I'm not saying ALL men are like that, but the majority of them are. Ofcourse there are many men who act like women, react with alot of emotion and are sensitive. Just sounds like this guy IS laid back and she really doesn't have anything to worry about...UNLESS, as I mentioned earlier, there is something more to the situation we're not aware of... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 kaneplacegirl, Your story sound familar.I haven't heard from my male friend in a month.I decided to give him his spac and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Kittiecat Posted May 3, 2006 Share Posted May 3, 2006 He might be dating someone. The honeymoon phase of a new relationship can make a guy forget about everything and everyone! Link to post Share on other sites
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