Jen38 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Hey all, Just a quick question. This guy I'll call Mike is a friend who I know through doing volunteer work and mutual friends. I've known him for about 3 years now. I'm married, he's not. He's always been friendly to me and he's not a big flirt with other women. Anyway, yesterday I went out with friends of mine to help out at a charity event (no alcohol there) in which we had to dress in costume. My friend Jill (his married co-worker) was dressed up in a Retro costume but the boots she wore made her look like she just got off work at the street corner (the rest of her outfit was very conservative). As a group, we were joking with her and she was laughing as she's definately NOT that kind of person. Mike was also joking with her and he was standing beside her but not close. Mike was fully facing me and he was standing close to me. Jill and her husband are trying for a baby and Mike joked that "well your hubby will appreciate your outfit tonight" to which she joked back. I didn't catch the comment she made but it was something about "turning her husband on." Jill and Mike were not looking at each other when they were joking as they were addressing the group. Mike then looked me in the eye and clearly said "Ya, I'd DO YOU" (his body fully facing me). Then he smiled at me. I was shocked! So here's my question: Do you think he was saying that to me? He never looked at Jill to see her reaction as he kept looking at me. And NO I'm NOT going to pursue any relationship with Mike, I'm happily married. I'm just curious because that hasn't happened before. I did tell my hubby and he said, "nice try buddy" (hubby is not the jealous type). Do you think it meant "ya I'd have sex with you...if I could". Link to post Share on other sites
whats wrong with me Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 yep thats what it meant...I'd be questioning WHY he said it though. Most guys dont just say something like that meaning "if I could" its more of a proposition (in my eyes). Weird... Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Guys would have sex with a lot of women if they could. AFAIK. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 IT means just as he said, He'd DO you if given the chance...He was stupid to open that door because it made you stop and think...And post about what he meant. Don't react to it at all. He is just letting you know that he'd have sex with you. Link to post Share on other sites
JayKay Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 OR...he might have just been trying to be a smart ass. It's sort of akin to the saying, "I wouldn't kick HIM (or HER) out of bed for eating crackers!" It's what you say about a cute guy/girl. It doesn't mean you really want to have sex with them. You're just commenting on their cute-ness. Honestly, I'd ignore the comment and not make a big deal out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 It means he has a key and you have a keyhole. Link to post Share on other sites
Ukwizard Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Hi Jen38 I m from the UK. The phrase "I do you" means I would have sex with you, but have no desire of any intimate relationship. Its a kind of phrase to show that you are "do-able" meaning that you attractive in a sexual way in order to have sex but little else. Link to post Share on other sites
Jen38 Posted March 25, 2006 Share Posted March 25, 2006 Hey everyone, Thanks so much for your feedback. And again, no I'm not about to do anything stupid as I'm happily married. This comment just took me by surprise and I just wondered what it meant. Thanks again! Link to post Share on other sites
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