Starnette83 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 Hi everyone, first off thank you for reading this!!! All your comments, suggestions will be appeciated:).. Anyways ive been with my bf for 5 years, this semester he decided to go to a far away school, 6 hours away. He had valid reasons for going so I decided to be supportive even though I knew it would be hard being far away from one another. Ok, so he wanted us to be together and i went to visit him twice and saw his new place, met his roomates and so fourth. Ok so his roomate had a gf who i met (since she was there when i went) and well she had been with the roomate for abour 3-4 months. So after 2-3 weeks of my bf moving in,she breaks up with her bf and starts IMING my bf on AIM. The same day she broke up with her bf she imed my bf saying she had broken up with him. When i found this out i was very suspicious because why would she so easily go and tell my bf this, when she barely had met him 3 weeks ago..couldnt she go to her friends and say this instead. Ok so i told him "thats weird, she must like you"...i wanted him to immediately stop talking to her so i told him "Its pointless if u continue talking to her, if your roomate finds out he will be mad and not only that but i dont think its right". A week after i was suppose to visit so i decided to go on his aim s/n, and guess who imed me right away??? lol it was her and she says "I miss you guys so much!!"...i immediately said, "Sorry, but hes not here right now, this is the gf"...she immediately said "Oh and tried changing the subject and signed off" So i became mad at my bf and told him that he needed to stop talking to her or it would cause trouble!...he has dead aim so i told him to let me read his previous convos with her but he denied,which infuriated me more!!! ok...so anyways i block her from his aim, and tell him"I blocked her, so i hope u dont unblock her" and he said "Okay".... well i went back home..and guess what he unblocks her and when i question him about it he denies it and acts defensive. OK SO NOW>....im ignoring him, i want him to stop playing this lying or whatever game. I want him to respect and take me seriously. THe reason i began to ignore him was because when i last asked him about her he became defensive and ignored my calls that night, even picked one of the phone call and hung up without saying a word. So its 3rd day no contact, so far hes called twice.... anyways i do want to work it out, because i do love him and know he hasnt cheated or anything, all i want is some respect from him Link to post Share on other sites
max003 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 he's cheating on you. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetie7 Posted March 23, 2006 Share Posted March 23, 2006 I don't think he's cheating on you! But I do know that my bf would not stand for it if I told him who he could and could not talk to. Seriously, I know from exerience. Not trusting him and not letting him talk to people is just going to make him bitter and think that you're really insecure. In college you make a lot of friends-is he not supposed to talk to girls except for you? Trust me, I would love if my bf wouldn't talk to girls but I know this isn't reality and I have to deal with it. Anyway, the girl IMed him "I miss you guys" so obviously she hadn't been seeing him. She probably hung out there a lot when she was with her bf and now never sees them. Who knows, she could be wanting to talk to your bf to get some info. about her ex. Even if she is interested in him, you have to trust that your bf wouldn't do anything to hurt you. God, I need to take my own advice hehe. Link to post Share on other sites
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