Guest Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I have read all of your entries..and this ex sounds alot like me. And I was dxd with borderline personality disorder. I have been putting people through hell for years because I have this disorder. I t is usually caused by childhood traumas...but there is help for people with it maybe you should consider it. There is a book called walking on eggshells for people that love borderlines. jen Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 14, 2006 Share Posted April 14, 2006 "Boomerang Relationship" - that's GREAT! It's exactly what I'm in - my ex keeps coming back but I'm fixing to bazooka the boomerang and kill it once and for all!!! I'm so done with my ex I could throw up. Once I figured out it wasn't me going bonkers walking on eggshells around his freaky personality - he's a narcisstic psycho mindgame manipulator concieted idiot - I can chunk this crap and go on with my life. And he kept calling me someone with abandonment issues (I lost 4 immediate members of my family) ............. well I'm about to show him that the only abandonment issues I have are trying to abandon him once and for all!!! No more boomerang relationship for me! I never could describe our breaking up and him coming back 3 times........perfect name for it!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author dr strangelove Posted April 15, 2006 Author Share Posted April 15, 2006 Hmm Im not sure if she has a borderline personality disorder. But she did need alot of reassurance. Im sure that the way she dealt with me has not changed for the way she deals with other men. I think it would take someone with alot of patience and they would really have to care alot about her. She has never said to me anything about getting counselling..so The counsellor I was seeing tried to help me understand her better, I may end ups seeking him out again. He said she was the type that need constant reassurance. Havent heard from her again. Dont see her on MSN I blocked her. I feel bad about that, not sure if unblocking will help. I quite miss her. I have some oppurtunities, to hang out with other women but thinking about today I have only a lustful interest in them, not romantic. I just dont feel those love pangs. Maybe I never will again. Thanks for the tip though, and I will keep an eye out for that book. Link to post Share on other sites
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