Dumpers- do the little things mean anything?

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Thanks for your kind words.

 

I felt mean enough writing the post - - to repost it in its own thread within the coping section would feel too mean to me.

 

I've been dumped too - and I know how that goes, the wondering and wondering what the ex is thinking. It gets you nowhere but it is very hard to turn off nonetheless.

 

 

Oh I understand your sentiments. But I disagree, don't feel that your words were mean, they were honest flip side to endless hours of many of us INCLUDING ME, who've done a fair amount of time trying to figure out what was in my ex's head. I too came to realize, it's misguided energy. And there have been those who were hard core with me, here on LS. I appreicated it, because knowing myself, I would have continued on that path and still tried to follow through and contact the ex...and 99.9% ended with more hurt for me. It was good to read what you did, because I still have my moments of questions like whispers, but damn your post helped ME slap those whispers away!