Author basscatcher Posted March 28, 2006 Author Share Posted March 28, 2006 Ya know, as an observer, I think you can invest more time finding the answer within you rather than outside yourself. The answer is with-in you. It is a choice to challlenge beliefs that were put in you as when you were in your youth,,,, yes necessary at the time. Example,,, " don;t touch the stove it is hot and will burn you." And that is no longer a valid belief... You need to establish the mental framework, thta your fatal-flaw is eliminated. It probably has something to with whom to have faith in, whom to trust etc. And your willingness to bounce. Therefore be more selfish... Do what is good for You. Most important, the cheapest, (free) is to change the way you speak. Hair styles, tans, clothes, etc, all cost money... Your voice is free. Think about it. Free. Only the most successful people work on there speech. The wealthy do it. They realize speaking positively and thinking positively is the easiest road. If you object to wealth,,,, hello? then you have a core belief that is no longer functional, It is a prejudice, and as a matter of fact , apostate to God,,, many men in the Bible were wealthy, Jesus was rich,,, He had a treasurer,,, Right,,, He was given Gold at birth, Right? people gambled for his clothes,,, Right... He had 12 guys who were to travel the globe ,, Right.... YEP THE GUY WAS NOT POOR! More info from my friend. Now this is hard for me to do. Is look for the answers inside of myself.. I don't trust my judgements about myself.. I take risks and chances but no with much trust in them. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Now this is hard for me to do. Is look for the answers inside of myself.. I don't trust my judgements about myself.. this is quite unfortunate....if you cannot trust yourself and your judgements then you obviously cannot trust others. Link to post Share on other sites
Author basscatcher Posted March 28, 2006 Author Share Posted March 28, 2006 this is quite unfortunate....if you cannot trust yourself and your judgements then you obviously cannot trust others. I don't trust easily. Especially when it comes to my feelings. But I still take the risk of putting my kneck out there. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Pada I get the feeling you are looking for a knight to rescue you.... are you kinda? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 I don't trust easily. Especially when it comes to my feelings. I disagree with your self-assessment. From the little I know of you I'd say you trust too much and too quickly... Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 I'm trying to understand this and It seems the same to me just is to seek approval for what the person is already doing and the other is like a child seeking approval for a lesson learned. They both are seeking approval Wait, what? Link to post Share on other sites
Author basscatcher Posted March 28, 2006 Author Share Posted March 28, 2006 more insight from my friend: The " yea-but" response to challenges are THE signal words that should alert you to " an excuse follows" SO, stop and examine your belief vs the facts. So take those questions you asked yourself and do the " yea-buts" then figure out the belief, or the absence of a belief,,, Confidence~~~DOUBT,,,, or a vision /belief of a negative outcome, fear,, Those are the exercises you need to be doing. The questions I asked myself are those I posed in my other thread... Link to post Share on other sites
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