carmaenforcer Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I just wanted to say that. Sorry a bit of a waste of a thread but I've been feeling so in love with my Wife today and I won't get to see her to tell her/show her for another hour or so. I knew, I'm a dork but me love just keeps growing with every nice thing I find out about her and with every time she persously does something healthy for our relationship. Every time I see an effort to making things better dispite her self or what the world might think. Every time she is honest even if it's going to piss me off. Every time she finds me in the pile of blankets when I'm having a nightmare. Every time she holds me when I'm sick. Every time she asks me what's wrong. Every time she gets mad at her Mom or Grandma for saying something bad about me or when they are mean to me. Every time I screw up and she forgives me. Every time she screws up and admits it and tries to harder not to do it again. I'm bustin over here. :love: Link to post Share on other sites
mimzie Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 That is so sweet!! Just wanted to reply to your post so you know you're doing a great job! I'm sure she appreciates it so much! Rachel Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 awww... you are so sweet!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 That's very special and very refreshing. I don't think that men in general tend to say it enough, especially not to their wives. Link to post Share on other sites
Author carmaenforcer Posted March 29, 2006 Author Share Posted March 29, 2006 Thanks for the nice replies you guys. I just felt like yelling it from the top of a hill somewhere but since I was stuck at work I had to use this forum. You know the funny thing is that she will never know it because she doesn't go on his forum, but I kind of told her anyway all day after work yesterday. We are kind of on a tight budget right now, trying to get our heads above water with the Credit Card bills and save to take our honey moon to Puerto Rico on our one year anniversary. I don't have the money available to "surprise her" (she manages the bill paying and knows when I take money out) with flowers or something like that to show her how I feel. So I just told her on the drive home after picking her up from work how much she means to me and it's because of the good person she has been to me. I appreciate the effort she puts into our relationship and how patient and understanding she is in the tuff times and how she stands up for me and for us when some one says something negative about our relationship. I thank god that I have her in my life. Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 is she the one who calls "Aliens" the "Aliums Show"? Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 That has to be the sweetest post i have ever seen on here before. Most posts on here are about annoying things spouses or s/o do . Thanks for sharing that with us. Now i am jealous that your wife has such a considerate mate. She is a very lucky lady ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author carmaenforcer Posted March 29, 2006 Author Share Posted March 29, 2006 is she the one who calls "Aliens" the "Aliums Show"? Yeah. Isn't that cute. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 That is cute! Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Yeah. Isn't that cute. yes, but I think it's equally sweet that you're an uxorious husband! Link to post Share on other sites
AlmostMarried77 Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 At last a thread i feel i can reply to I'm hearing you man.. totally and without reservation, I'm feeling the same thing for my wife. Every single day she manages to, without trying, remind me of why I love her so much. Just today we managed to sort out an issue that had come between us. It was something that was causing friction and I could tell that she wanted to fix the issue just as much as I did. In fact, she told me the solution she had, which was the exact same thing I had been thinking but was holding back cause I wanted to hear what she would suggest first. Its so good to know that your both on the same wavelength. You've got a relationship together, and that comes first before the individual. If you both have that mindset then individual needs can be met whilst allowing the relationship to grow like a big oak tree. I just hope that when were both in our 60's I can still make her smile and laugh like i do now. Wives are fantastic/brilliant/super/marvelous/excellent (delete as appropriate) Link to post Share on other sites
Author carmaenforcer Posted March 30, 2006 Author Share Posted March 30, 2006 AlmostMarried77, we do have our bad days like any couple but like you said about your W, I could tell that she wanted to fix the issue just as much as I did. That's the vibe I get from my W. And it's nice to know that they care about the relationship or making you happy or both. Yeah, I would give the world to her if I could. Since I can't I think I'll just be a good husband. Link to post Share on other sites
AlmostMarried77 Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 oh yeah, bad days, even weeks, and very occasionally months are part of the equation. But its how you both deal with them and get through them that makes it worthwhile. If its always peachy then you've got nothing to really base your trust in. Anyway - good job on starting a happy marriage thread. It made my day Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Thanks for the nice replies you guys. I just felt like yelling it from the top of a hill somewhere but since I was stuck at work I had to use this forum. You know the funny thing is that she will never know it because she doesn't go on his forum, but I kind of told her anyway all day after work yesterday. We are kind of on a tight budget right now, trying to get our heads above water with the Credit Card bills and save to take our honey moon to Puerto Rico on our one year anniversary. I don't have the money available to "surprise her" (she manages the bill paying and knows when I take money out) with flowers or something like that to show her how I feel. So I just told her on the drive home after picking her up from work how much she means to me and it's because of the good person she has been to me. I appreciate the effort she puts into our relationship and how patient and understanding she is in the tuff times and how she stands up for me and for us when some one says something negative about our relationship. I thank god that I have her in my life. Gonna "jump the couch"? JK! Link to post Share on other sites
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