Tony T Posted September 20, 2001 Share Posted September 20, 2001 You don't deal with major relationship issues in email. You do it in person. This relationship is headed south in a big way. Time for a summit conference between the two of you during which time you must talk everything out. Discuss your feelings, discuss what is hurting or scaring you, talk about what you like about the relationship, find out why it is crashing in some ways, get into his head and find out what is going on. From my perspective, it seems things are over. However, perhaps the two of you can talk things out and get yourselves back on track with each other. But it will take at least one or two major conversations to accomplish that. Stop discussing critical relationship issues in email or in any other form of communication except face to face, in person. Get together for a major talk as soon as possible. If after you talk you see no future, end things. There is no good reason to drag out the pain if that's what is actually happening. Look for sincerity. Don't just let him say what he thinks you want to hear. There have to be some good reasons why he's been acting weird and you MUST find out what those reasons are and act accordingly. Link to post Share on other sites
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