phyrespryte Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 Question for the guys...women can share what they think too. Are you really picky about a woman's looks? Like my one guy friend is completely turned off by little things like moles or scars. Another friend once told me how the veins on this woman's arm "grossed him out". If a woman has an attractive face, great personality, and decent body would something little turn you off from her? Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 Nope! The "great personality" would be the attraction. Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 I admit that I need to be attracted to someone to be with them, but they don't need to be anything special looks wise. I find little flaws like moles cute. It's all about the personality in the long run. Link to post Share on other sites
Ukwizard Posted April 2, 2006 Share Posted April 2, 2006 Are you really picky about a woman's looks? To answer your question. Yes and no. It really depends on the person. I`m 31 and I used to like `perfect` women, You know the ones on magazine covers, models on TV etc. As I ve grown I ve crashed to reality and began to think what I was looking for was a supermodel. I believe as we age we tend to find that looks arent that important. (Although it does help) We begin to look for someone to our own level of attractiveness. It took me the last 10 years or so to find out I like kind of chubby women although my friends get turned off by flab. The problem with society is that we are bombarded with images of scantily clad beautiful stick insects (women) Not everyone out there in the real world is picky. Have you walked down your high street and saw a couple that you thought not in a million years would be together. Like for example the guy was real ugly but the girl hes going out with is amazing. There is always somebody out there for someone and to get turned of by a boil or a scar isnt being in love with the person but their looks. Bascially they are not physically attractted to them because of their appearance. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted April 2, 2006 Share Posted April 2, 2006 I think that if real feelings are involved those 'little' things don't mean anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted April 2, 2006 Share Posted April 2, 2006 If a woman has an attractive face, great personality, and decent body would something little turn you off from her? If I cared for her nothing about her would turn me off. Link to post Share on other sites
justagirliegirl Posted April 2, 2006 Share Posted April 2, 2006 Question for the guys...women can share what they think too. Are you really picky about a woman's looks? Like my one guy friend is completely turned off by little things like moles or scars. Another friend once told me how the veins on this woman's arm "grossed him out". If a woman has an attractive face, great personality, and decent body would something little turn you off from her? And I suppose your friends are perfect male specimens in every way! :lmao: No toe hair, moles or nothing! Link to post Share on other sites
mini696 Posted April 3, 2006 Share Posted April 3, 2006 Not at all... Its those exact things that make a woman attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
Author phyrespryte Posted April 12, 2006 Author Share Posted April 12, 2006 And I suppose your friends are perfect male specimens in every way! :lmao: No toe hair, moles or nothing! Actually they're not that hot themselves. But they're so verbal about what they don't like in a woman it kind of disturbs me, especially since most of this stuff isn't such a big thing. Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 I have to ask whether they actually get dates with many women. Maybe they make up these flaws later because they aren't getting anywhere with dating them? Link to post Share on other sites
Author phyrespryte Posted April 12, 2006 Author Share Posted April 12, 2006 I believe as we age we tend to find that looks arent that important. (Although it does help) We begin to look for someone to our own level of attractiveness. So do you think that it's mostly younger men that expect a flawless woman? Link to post Share on other sites
Author phyrespryte Posted April 12, 2006 Author Share Posted April 12, 2006 I have to ask whether they actually get dates with many women. Maybe they make up these flaws later because they aren't getting anywhere with dating them? Well the one that gets bothered by moles is quite the player. I'm not sure how he does it, but the girls seem to like him. But that's a good point. One time this one girl wouldn't give him any attention and he started criticizing her. But there are other girls that are attracted to him and he'll be just as critical. Link to post Share on other sites
ali0812 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 If thats not really what a man wants then how come they drool over magazine covers or pcs of supermodels? If they could have those girls it would probably be a different story? Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 If thats not really what a man wants then how come they drool over magazine covers or pcs of supermodels? If they could have those girls it would probably be a different story? Not all guys do that. As for me and my *preferences*... great personality, a great ass, and a great pair of legs is the ticket for admission into my warren. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 My BF has friends like that. Ironically though, as long as I've known them they've been single. Maybe one night stands, but those don't really count if the chick wakes up and declines your phone number. This one guy is short, fat, and bald, and he is so picky and verbal about his pickiness and it makes me laugh, to be honest. I'm always like, well obviously there's the reason you're single, buddy. Link to post Share on other sites
jimbob_jim Posted May 27, 2006 Share Posted May 27, 2006 I quite a few big moles on my arms and on my back. Thinking of taking them off as they are annoying when i look in the mirror. The small one im not really concerned too much about them. I am picky with choosing women yes, I like pretty gals, not perfect, but pretty. Anyway when I go out and I get attention from gals I always feel very confident and my self-esteem hits the roof when a gal I like pays attention to me, but then reality hits me in the face and I keep thinking that if i take them home with me and we end up in bed she will be turned off at first site. I just feel trapped. When I look at people in the summer taking their tops off showing their good physique I always wish I could do that as well. I go to the gym every week, so I got the body for it (in terms of physique), but there will always be something holding me back from feeling free to do whatever I want. I am quite the religious person, so I pray in hope god will take pity on me and remove them all. When I go out and see people worse off (disabled people) than me I always think god is sending me a message when I see a person like that, to say i should be greatful I am not in a similar position. That is correct and I am grateful, but I also want a companion in life and the way I feel about myself just when things start to look good go down hill. I am thinking of getting about 8 moles removed from my body in the future, yes I know there will be a scar, the way I see it a scar is better than a brown mole on a light skinned person. Link to post Share on other sites
jimbob_jim Posted May 27, 2006 Share Posted May 27, 2006 the same can be asked about women. I am a guy who has low self-esteem regardless of how many gals I can easily go out with if I wanted to. My problem is I have moles on my back and a few on the front of my body, the kind of gals I like, like their men to look good and strong. I go to the gym every week so I think I got a good body physique, however having moles on my back and a few red spots, it even puts me off when I look in the mirror. I am planning to have them removed in the near future, it will set me back a bit money-wise. I know I will have a bit of scars, but seeing as most of the scars will be on my back I am not too fussed really. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest001 Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 LOL I just had this discussion last night some for female friends of mine. Its all about the guy and what hes interested in. A friend can point out someone to me and within 10 secs I can tell you if Im physically attracted to her. Now my friends will find someone attractive to them but I can look at them like their on fire. Some guys like big women, some like um extremely thin, some like alittle thickness. Now Ive never heard of anyone not liking someone because they have a mole here or there. From what I hear its the same with women, one would go for this guy but the other would turn up her noise to him. For me its do I find her physically attractive. Once those few secs have passed then Im all about what her attitude is and nothing more is though about her physically. Attitude to me is more important, but you cant be with someone that your not phycially attrated to. And no Im not attracted to the runway model types and I'm not into big juggs either. Link to post Share on other sites
Author phyrespryte Posted May 31, 2006 Author Share Posted May 31, 2006 And no Im not attracted to the runway model types and I'm not into big juggs either. Darn! That's a perfect description of me. j/k Oh and Jimbob, I don't think moles are a big deal. And most people on this thread aren't bothered by it. But to be perfectly honest if there was like a hair growing out of one of your moles I might be a little grossed out. So if you have any of those you might want to tweeze it or something. Link to post Share on other sites
Marquis-de-Carabas Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 I have a female friend who had what I would term, "Seinfeld Syndrome." She would date a guy once or twice then dump him because of what I would consider insignificant physical defects. I mean things like his earlobes didn't match. I told her that one day she'd meet a guy and things like that would not matter. About a year ago, she met a guy and they've gotten engaged. Never in a million-zillion years would we think that she'd pick this guy. I've not heard one thing about his physical defects from her. If you keep searching for perfection on the body, wouldn't it stand to reason that you'll never find it? Link to post Share on other sites
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