phrekmon Posted April 1, 2006 Share Posted April 1, 2006 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t754...light=phrekmon http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t763...light=phrekmon You might want to read some of my old posts to get an idea what happened in my life. In a nutshell my wife left me for her chidhood sweetheart last Nov. came back a month later. In that time I have found Jesus and totaly submitted to God. some of the stipulations I put on our reunion was our marriage would be Christ centered, there would be no contact with the OM, and I would control all money matters. O.K. she agreed and away we go. In Jan. I found out she had contacted him, even left a love kinda letter on his car outside his work which he brought to me. (after I found his number on her cell phone I called him) I forgave her, she promised again no contact. We have become very active in the church and even get counceling from the Paster and his wife at least once a week and now we talk on phone to them everyday to be accountable. Again everything seemed as though we were on the right track. We fellowship at church 2-3 nights a week and all day on Sundays is Gods (church in a.m. and mens/womens ministry Sunday nights) This past Monday she tells me she doesnt want to try anymore to heal our marriage or herself (both of us knew the Lord but didnt walk in his light in our past) She told me that she cant forgive me for my part in our 10 year marriage. I let her know that 10 years I worshiped her but now God was my first love, and I would continue to Love, Honor and provide for her till she made the choise to leave (there was no fighting,screaming etc..from me like in the past) I asked her to be honest with me for her reasons, she told me it was the OM again (shes talking on the phone to him from work) she could not get him out of her head. I am confused about what God wants me to do. I read that God didnt forsake me when I was not walking with him, and I should not forsake her, but also this is the only reason God would allow a divorce as in cases of infidelity. Any suggestions,comments ? Dennis Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted April 3, 2006 Share Posted April 3, 2006 I posted to you in the other thread. Link to post Share on other sites
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