mrbinary Posted April 2, 2006 Share Posted April 2, 2006 last year my mum met this girl in my classes mum and then we started going over to her house. After a while we became best friends.Then over time i have fallen for her but last night my sister told me that her mum said i was the only guy she has ever trusted because of her dad. I am worried that if i ask her out it will affect our relationship and i am also worried that she willl never trust another guy again should i tell her that i have feelings for her or should i wait a couple of years or should i not tell her at all Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted April 2, 2006 Share Posted April 2, 2006 I generally believe in following your gut and I always believe in complete honesty in every relationship. I, too, fell in love with my best friend and we've now been married for almost 10 years. Link to post Share on other sites
prrthd1 Posted April 3, 2006 Share Posted April 3, 2006 I am a female who fell in love with my best friend about two years ago. I let it go on with out saying anything, assuming, by things he said and did, that he felt the same way. It wasn't until three weeks ago that I got the courage to tell him how I feel about him. He blew up and said he couldn't even be friends with me anymore because I felt this way. Come to find out, it's not me he just doesn't want to be in a relationship with anybody. If I had known this all along, we may have still gotten as close as we did, but a lot of things would have been different. Take from a girl who's been there and gotten hurt badly - it will save you a lot of heartache if you go ahead and tell her how you feel. She may say she feels the same way or she may not want to be friends any more. I let it go on without saying anything and I came to deeply love and care about someone who couldn't return it. You don't necessarily have to say "I love you," but just ask her if she is interested in something more or if she wants to keep it strictly platonic. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 last year my mum met this girl in my classes mum and then we started going over to her house. After a while we became best friends.Then over time i have fallen for her but last night my sister told me that her mum said i was the only guy she has ever trusted because of her dad. I am worried that if i ask her out it will affect our relationship and i am also worried that she willl never trust another guy again should i tell her that i have feelings for her or should i wait a couple of years or should i not tell her at all I think that you should tell her, *BUT* say something like "we have been best friends for a while now, and when you are around someone for a long time, and you really start to care about them.. you develop strong feelings for them. and i have been holding this back trying to make up my mind if i should tell you this because i dont want to loose you best friend or more but *say her name* i think that i am falling for you, i want to be more than just friends, and i also realize that you have a problem with trusting guys, but i would never hurt you and i hope that you have realized that from us being best friends for a while now, but the decision is up to you.. but *name* i really like you (if you love her, say love..shouldnt hurt)!!" ~*i!i say take a chance, the worst thing that could happen if she was your true best friend is she can say no.. GO FOR IT, good luck!!i*~ Link to post Share on other sites
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