JustWondering123 Posted April 2, 2006 Share Posted April 2, 2006 hey i would like to know if these girls like me or not and they both work at the same place as me, and with me: The first girl is a looker, simply stunning, and turns heads wherever she goes. It's a pleasure and surprise to work with someone so attractive, so i guess every little thing she does that involves me, i interpret as her liking me. But that isn't the case all the time, and i understand that i may just view things favorably because i am so attracted to her. But here are the signs i am recieving: 1.)she's physical, always giving friendly bumps, little shoves/pushes 2.)she always eats off of my plate (we work in a restaurant, but whenever i get food she always and only wants to eat with me) 3.)she keeps suggesting that me and her and the other guy i work with should all go and get food after work and hang out. 4.)She talks to me, but eye contact isnt always there (i always maintain eye contact, its respectful to the speaker). 5.)She gave me her SN requesting that i send her my website that has some of my artwork (art student here) so she could see it. I did not mention showing it to her or anything. 6.)She sometimes asks if i met anyone yet, and lets me know of her breakups and hook ups. 7.) She babytalks to me...(teasing and that stuff) These are the signs i get, but i also recognize that she is flirty and confident and knows it. I just assume we are friends and all, nothing more, but just wondering if it may be more than that. The second girl is cute, not necessarily in the same category of head-turning as the first (but this isnt that important). She is also older then me by a year, a brunette, and the daughter of one of my co-workers. I find her appealing as well and i like her personality a lot. THe signs i get from her are: 1.) She is also physical as well, playfully punching my back/arms to get attention 2.) She likes to tell me about her problems (yeah i know) and about how terrible her week has been. 3.) She always teases me and makes fun of me 4.) She's always happy when i am around (from what i've seen) 5.) She doesnt really talk to anyone else that much (she's sort of new and doesnt know that many people either though, she only talks to one other guy besides me) 6.) She laughs when she makes a mistake in front of me (reading something wrong, or bringing something to the wrong person) I am really just curious to see if there is an attraction either or both, simpy so i can see the signs better and maybe get closer with one of them. Any and all informative/helpful posts would be great, Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted April 5, 2006 Share Posted April 5, 2006 humm well i think they both like you but i feel that the 2nd girl is more into you, just by the way she seems to be happier, smiling, laughing and being more open with you. the first one...hmmm thats tough, cause when a girl who knows what shes got flaunts it, the signs she gives doesn't always mean she feels the way she expresses herself. i dont know, from what i see, they both like you, maybe more then friends maybe not. i guess you should just try to become more flirty/physical with them as well and see where that leads. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 Neither one appears to be interested in you Romantically. I 'd venture to say both see you as a great Buddy. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 I hate it when I meet them at a workplace. You would not know untill you ask them out to happy hour or push your friendly boundaries from talking to some 1-1 face time. Maybe a few flirty moves that they touch you and BOTH of you somewhat invades each others space. Once dated someone in the SAME DEPT on the SAME FLOOR, didn't work out and it was very arkward after the breakup. I did meet a very nice red head temp (someone else), she almost became a permanent. Likes younger men (6 yr difference), loves baking and we even traded some chocolate cake/pastry recipes and tips. Heck she even baked me a few cupcakes and some of her creations. Of the guys she talks to at work, I'm like #1, As much as I love them red heads, I stopped and told her I was interested but no going further since I work with her. Gave her my number and when the time comes; give me a howler. (bad move? maybe but read my last line) My personal advice is to not play where you work; especially in the same dept or same floor. Much harder to move on when BAD (and good) things happen. As in if her tummy started getting larger, everyone KNOWS who did it... Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 Well you pretty much described me again " The red headed Baker ! " lol....name your pie Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 Well you pretty much described me again " The red headed Baker ! " lol....name your pie Stop teasing me! It's my birthday! LOL... you fiesty red head! Don't make me get fresh and tease you now. Like all pies, including cream pie! Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 Happy Birthday Jer Bear ! Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 you two stop flirting, you aint helping the thread starter here sheesh take it to an online chat service Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 Okay I will be good Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 OP (as in JustWondering123) Ask both out and see. Oh yeah, give them some cannolis and see. Darn... I was hoping for some pie last night... didn't get any Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 8, 2006 Share Posted April 8, 2006 You could also ask them what kind of pie they like Link to post Share on other sites
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