Kelly Posted September 23, 2001 Share Posted September 23, 2001 My boyfriend wants to make love with me .( we have done everything except intercourse). However, he won't commit to love before he sured (he said he doesn't want to lie). He will only upgrade the relationship after sex and get along for certain period. For me, I would only have sex when I am sure he loves me. We have different point of view on sex and love. Who is right? We've been together for more than 2 months. We like each other. He's a person who not easily say "love" unless it really is. That's fine to me at least he is honest. I'm aperson who only make love to one I love (now I just like him with strong feeling). And he is one who won't upgrade to" love" before ML. But i feel insecure in his way and also think ML will made us closer. should I??? Link to post Share on other sites
sullen_girl Posted September 23, 2001 Share Posted September 23, 2001 Personally, I think you are both right in a way. You each have your own set of beliefs, and your own bodies to take care of. But, last time I checked, love doesn't come from sex. Even I know that much. Don't have sex with him unless you feel sure of it, and unless you feel it is right. If he can't understand that, then there is definately a bigger problem to take care of. Link to post Share on other sites
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