Guest Posted April 4, 2006 Share Posted April 4, 2006 I have a gf in Australia. I love her and we have beein in an LDR for over a year. I live in South Africa. Last year , i discovered i was madly in love with my friend in Britian. I told her how i felt and she said lets just remain friends. After that we just chatted and we grew distant. A couple of days ago we had a long chat ( not about love ) and i discovered i am still in love with her. It kills me that she will never understand how much i love her. I know she will never like me. My question is how can i get my freind out of my heart and head without losing her as a friend. A second q i have is If you think the grass is greener on the other side ( with regards to relationships ) , should you go for it. Even if the risk of getting no one and being lonely has a high chance of happening Link to post Share on other sites
tearful_soul22 Posted April 9, 2006 Share Posted April 9, 2006 I think you have a very unique circumstances there in regards to whether to use your head or your heart in this matter. The logical thing to do here is to take a step back and analyze your situation very carefully and weigh your options. It's difficult to love someone who doesn't feel the same way but there's always the option of friendship which i believe is not what you're aiming for..but it's better than losing her completely. As for your next Q..once again, i wouldn't just jump into any relationship without giving it a serious thought because let's be real, are you very confident that it is indeed greener over there or just assuming it is? I rather stay put where i am in my own comfort zone than risk being alone for the rest of my life in some strange land or situation. Maybe someone else on here have better ideas or advices for you instead of my bleak and dim approach in regards to everything that has to do with love or relationships. Anyways, good luck to you. Hope you'll find what you're searching for! Link to post Share on other sites
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