greensmoke Posted September 25, 2001 Share Posted September 25, 2001 last year, i met this really wonderful guy at school. right around that time my boyfriend avoided me and we lost contanct for a month. i actually got the confidence to get to know the new guy but he was taken. it was an emotional rollercoaster for me, i felt hopeless and insecure. then...my boyfriend called out of nowhere and apologized. it seemed appealing at the time, so we got back together... big mistake, i admit it, but would it help to call the guy from school to leave my boyfriend for good? or will i just hurt more people in this way? Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Mojo Posted September 25, 2001 Share Posted September 25, 2001 hi greensmoke, i really feel that you shouldn't have to use calling up this guy as an excuse to leave your boyfriend. that's not fair on anybody. be strong and do things the right way. be honest with yourself and with your current boyfriend and break-up with him if you are not happy. you already have your reasons that indicate your current relationship is not working. you don't need to find excuses for not wanting to be with him anymore. having another person as an excuse for a break-up can be very hurtful if your current boyfriend finds out. you don't have to tell your boyfriend that you want to be with someone else. let him know that you feel getting back together wasn't done for the right reasons and you'd be happier alone....then decide if you still want to give this other guy a call and also find out if he is still taken. nobody likes a person who chases someone elses partner. stay well away if he is not single. you may even find you like being single for a while. we don't have to hook up with someone just because we like them. just make sure you get one guy out of the picture before you start seeing another and be fair to your current boyfriend, yourself, and the guy you like (and any girlfriend he may have). best wishes Link to post Share on other sites
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