Windy Posted September 25, 2001 Share Posted September 25, 2001 Can he be serious? or is he just playing a game for fun? What's the deal here? He's nice and treat me with respect by all means. Very professional. However, he shouldn't let himself feel for your student employee, should he? I mean I am all his, only if he's not married. No wonder I feel s***ty. I can't just withdraw my feeling for him but I can't just let myself carry away. I don't steal. God...help me out here Link to post Share on other sites
Danielle Posted September 25, 2001 Share Posted September 25, 2001 In all likelihood, this guy is just a natural flirt and doesn't take his sexual intimidation seriously. A lot of married men who are committed to their partners enjoy getting attention from younger women, and the workplace is a typical place where this type of harmless flirtation occurs. It can be easy to feel sexually attracted to someone in a position of power at work, but you have to remind yourself that this guy is MARRIED. As tempting as an office affair may seem, they inevitably lead to trouble. And if you are his junior, you will probably be the one to suffer the most if the affair is exposed. Not to mention the effect it would have on his wife! What if you were in her position? I think it is best if you try not to respond to his (innocent?) advances. He may soon grow tired of the game. In any case, you shouldn't be made to feel uneasy in the workplace. If he continues to intimidate you in this way and you have made it clear to him that the situation is making you uncomfortable, you should think about making a sexual harrasment complaint. There could be other girls who feel the same way as you. Link to post Share on other sites
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