Sunshinebaby1984 Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 I have been talking to this 23 year old guy for about 1 year now. It has been strictly online communication only. 4 months after I first talked to him he messaged me and said, " I really enjoy talking to you, and I am beginning to like you a lot. We have had conversations in the past that gave me the idea that he did was interested. He would say things like I would love to hang out with you sometime, I wish you could come here and we could cuddle. I think you and I have great chemistry if you want there to be that is. But he is so sexual, and this makes me wonder what he really wants from me. Lately he has been talking about coming over to see me. I really like him a lot, but I don't know if he like me back. Are all of the things he is saying signs that he is interested? And what kind of questions can I ask him to find out if he likes me with out asking him straight out? Also what sort of things do guys do and say that gives how they feel about you away? Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 I have been talking to this 23 year old guy for about 1 year now. It has been strictly online communication only. 4 months after I first talked to him he messaged me and said, " I really enjoy talking to you, and I am beginning to like you a lot. We have had conversations in the past that gave me the idea that he did was interested. He would say things like I would love to hang out with you sometime, I wish you could come here and we could cuddle. I think you and I have great chemistry if you want there to be that is. But he is so sexual, and this makes me wonder what he really wants from me. Lately he has been talking about coming over to see me. I really like him a lot, but I don't know if he like me back. Are all of the things he is saying signs that he is interested? And what kind of questions can I ask him to find out if he likes me with out asking him straight out? Also what sort of things do guys do and say that gives how they feel about you away? Thank you. If you are intent about wanting to meet him, then invite him out somewhere in public. A restaurant or coffee house are two good examples. Talk to him. Ask him about his life, his interests, his background, friends and family, stuff like that, stuff that you already don't know about him. If pretty much all that he does with you is flirt, then he only wants you for one thing. Chances are that if he doesn't want to get into detail about any of that stuff, he is only interested in you sexually. If this guy is for real, then he will enjoy your company and would like to get to know you instead of trying to get with you. Its worth a shot, good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 He sounds like he wants to get cozy at your place with some hugs...Of course those hugs can lead to caresses and so forth so know what you are in for.... I agree, meet him at a Starbucks or something if you want to just chat in a public environment. Link to post Share on other sites
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