sortafairytale Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 i was really into this guy that i was dating a few months ago. for his own reasons, he decided to stop seeing me? he wasn't mean or nasty or anything. he just kind of stopped calling. i attempted to see him once, and he turned it down. after that, i stopped calling him. (b/c it's obvious if he wanted to see me, he'd call). we've chatted a few times over the internet. but i haven't seen him-in person, for about... oh... almost 6 months now. so he calls me out of the blue? "called just to say hey." it was a short convo, like 10 min or something and it's been 2 weeks and haven't heard anything else. it bothers the hell out of me that he called me at all. out of all the women he knows, and all the people that he could call, he calls me? why do people do this? i know i shouldn't over-analyze this so i'll stop here. i was just wondering if anyone had any opinion of why... especially after it was his decision to stop seeing me. this totally does not make any sense to me. thanks in advance to anyone who replies to this. =) Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 out of all the women he knows, and all the people that he could call, he calls me? I think you overestimate the number of people we have at our disposal to F when we feel like it. I had a one-night stand with a guy who called me like 6 or 8 months later. I turned his offer to meet up down, cuz I figured he wanted to use me just for sex. But I am not saying that he is necessarily only after sex. he probably had some woman he loved before and stopped seeing you. Now he is probably available again or is in bad terms with her. Just be careful not to fall in love before you're sure there is no one else and he is emotionally available. Wait for him to chase you, don't respond to his calls with passion! Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 Sometimes people get lonely and flip through their phonebook. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sortafairytale Posted April 7, 2006 Author Share Posted April 7, 2006 wow, people actually do that? i guess i can't expect people to be like me. if i get lonely, i call one of my friends. maybe an old friend. but never someone i used to date (that i didn't stay friends with), that's just weird. i suppose there are a lot of strange folks out there. Link to post Share on other sites
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