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My significant other and I broke up about a month ago, I still love her and she's moved on with someone I thought was my friend.

In this position, I still love her but I'm not sure I could be with her through all of this, not yet atleast.

I can't completely have NC because we go to school together and have some classes where we sit right next to each other. I don't know how to act..

should I smile at her, or talk to her, or respond to her when she talks to me?

Or should I just move on, if she talks to me about 'this' I won't respond, or I wont smile at her or anything?

I feel like I, at this point, want her to realize what she's done and start having feelings for me again; which way would be the best route to take?

Then again, maybe I should move on.. this is so confusing.

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Ignore her. Period.

 

If she looks at you, just smile and keep walking or do whatever it is your were doing.

 

What you want to show her, regardless of whether it's a fact or not, is that you're A-OK without her.

 

You don't need her and your actions should show her that.

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I think that's probably the best approach, I'll start to show her I can move on without her.

Now that I think about it, I probably pushed her closer to liking somebody else by showing her I want to be with her and letting her feel like she can fall back on me.

+1 for Caliguy

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