jacki Posted September 27, 2001 Share Posted September 27, 2001 I dated someone for four years and to say the least it left me hurt and angry. Anyway, it's been 4 months and he has another girlfriend. I have made the choice to remain on my own for awhile. He wants to be my friend. Which I would like as well. But i believe, i can be friends with somebody, wenn this somebody wants me not to be hearted. But this Guy, he really hearted me so much...., that no one done in my life bevore, so how can i be friend with such kind of Guy. I really feel sorry, that i had been so many Years with him. I was so busy to know him well. But now he tries to give me a call and write e-mails. Does'nt he had a sense to think, that we can't be friends, after all this. since one month, all of a sudden, i stop teh communication with him, and yesterday he send me an e-mail, that he really feel bad of that. and he doesn't want to remain like that with me. So what do u advise me??????? i believe a true friendship demand to be fair with someone, who had been in love with u. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 27, 2001 Share Posted September 27, 2001 It will be impossible to be friends with this guy so don't waste your time. The next time he calls or sends an email, tell him you are not interested in a friendship at this time. Let him know he hurt you and friendship, at least for a good while, is out of the picture while you heal and move on with your life. After that, take no more of his calls and do not return messages or emails. Get on with your life because it sounds like he has done that with his. This friendship crap he wants is just out of guilt and I doubt there is a great deal of sincerity there. Why should you be friends with him so he can feel better about screwing you over. Link to post Share on other sites
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