catgirl1927 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Probably any chick with a nice ass & rack. You're a giant poo-head. Oh yeah, I'm name-calling. POO-HEAD!!! Anyway, the shady ones are the ones he doesn't want me to meet, the ones who call in the middle of the night, text in the middle of the night, talk bad about me to his friends, come up to us when we're together and climb all over him and keep at least one hand on him and don't even make eye contact with me unless it's to look at me like I have two heads and then roll their eyes. The ones that constantly bring up what great sex they used to have right in front of me. The ones that say, "oh yeah, X and used to date. We're broken up. For NOW." The ones that are constantly rubbing up against him, trying to get him to walk off with them and leave me standing there, the ones that keep dropping things right in front of him and bending over at the waist to get them. The ones that constantly go on and on about how they're just so lonely and horny and really think they're going to have a lesbian encounter and wouldn't it be great if he would film it for them. Those. Very shady. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 that's red flag if the bf doesn't want his gf to meet any of his friends that are girls who he claims are "just friends". If there's nothing going on, why the worry of meeting eachother? If the bf's friend doesn't want to meet his gf, then the friend obviously has issues with him having a gf and that says there is something more there on her end. The OP did meet his GF. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 You're a giant poo-head. Oh yeah, I'm name-calling. POO-HEAD!!! Anyway, the shady ones are the ones he doesn't want me to meet, the ones who call in the middle of the night, text in the middle of the night, talk bad about me to his friends, come up to us when we're together and climb all over him and keep at least one hand on him and don't even make eye contact with me unless it's to look at me like I have two heads and then roll their eyes. The ones that constantly bring up what great sex they used to have right in front of me. The ones that say, "oh yeah, X and used to date. We're broken up. For NOW." The ones that are constantly rubbing up against him, trying to get him to walk off with them and leave me standing there, the ones that keep dropping things right in front of him and bending over at the waist to get them. The ones that constantly go on and on about how they're just so lonely and horny and really think they're going to have a lesbian encounter and wouldn't it be great if he would film it for them. Those. Very shady.Have you actually ever met this woman...the one saying and doing all these things? Or was that in a porn? Link to post Share on other sites
what's going on Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Tink, I would be alerted to any female who doesn't have ANY female friends. I've met a couple women like this and they have had issues about being very insecure, jealous of females in general ,etc. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 What about someone who is say.....shy ? Dosn't have an easy time getting to know people.Or someone who dosn't typically have female friends? I think a lot of judging comes from instantanious body cues that are built into us that can be misread easily. I've had this happen and seen it happen also. This is hilarious, because I am shy in real life, too. And my BF keeps trying to "set me up" with various GFs of his friends, who are all shy too?!?! Hah. Is this like an epidemic or what? We're all shy, typing feverishly at our PCs, probably living right next door to each other. Link to post Share on other sites
what's going on Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Tink, Unfortunately I met an ex like Cat's description of the shady girl sans the mentioning of the sex and the brushing up against.... Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 This is hilarious, because I am shy in real life, too. And my BF keeps trying to "set me up" with various GFs of his friends, who are all shy too?!?! Hah. Is this like an epidemic or what? We're all shy, typing feverishly at our PCs, probably living right next door to each other. It's true I'm your next-door-neighbor , Im the one looking around outside going here kitty , where are you??????????? Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Have you actually ever met this woman...the one saying and doing all these things? Or was that in a porn? Oh honey, I WISH. No. That's actually a conglomeration of several of the exes I've met who are "friends" with my BF. The thing is, when I'm reasonable and not in the midst of a self-esteem crisis, I realize along with him that those girls aren't so much interested in him as they are in asserting their power. They do that to make me feel insecure and to see if they still have any power over him. Or rather, to prove the power they are just sure they have. The lesbian encounter stuff was over text messages during the workday. He accidentally sent one of his responses to me. I was so busy at work I didn't have time for a crapload of drama, he called in such a panic to explain it I just said "whatever, I really have to get back to work" and dropped it. Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 This is hilarious, because I am shy in real life, too. And my BF keeps trying to "set me up" with various GFs of his friends, who are all shy too?!?! Hah. Is this like an epidemic or what? We're all shy, typing feverishly at our PCs, probably living right next door to each other. I think we might be. Wouldn't that be cool??? I mean, only if we met or something. Not if we stay all shy. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 It's true I'm your next-door-neighbor , Im the one looking around outside going here kitty , where are you??????????? I'm at work, hiding in the office in the very back, closest to the exit. Killing time until I can get off work and watch Friends while my dogs bark at you in the backyard. Then I'll run out in my underware to yell at them to shut up and you'll think I'm...dare I say..... PSYCHO! Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Oh honey, I WISH. No. That's actually a conglomeration of several of the exes I've met who are "friends" with my BF. The thing is, when I'm reasonable and not in the midst of a self-esteem crisis, I realize along with him that those girls aren't so much interested in him as they are in asserting their power. They do that to make me feel insecure and to see if they still have any power over him. Or rather, to prove the power they are just sure they have. The lesbian encounter stuff was over text messages during the workday. He accidentally sent one of his responses to me. I was so busy at work I didn't have time for a crapload of drama, he called in such a panic to explain it I just said "whatever, I really have to get back to work" and dropped it. your ex dated STRIPPERS , didn't he .... Those are the only type I've ever seen act that way , ever , and it was over money not men. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 I think we might be. Wouldn't that be cool??? I mean, only if we met or something. Not if we stay all shy. Yeah that would be funnnn-nay. A bunch of us meeting at someone's house sitting there in uncomfortable silence, until we all pull out laptops and start chatting online. To each other. While we sit next to each other in the same room. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 I'm at work, hiding in the office in the very back, closest to the exit. Killing time until I can get off work and watch Friends while my dogs bark at you in the backyard. Then I'll run out in my underware to yell at them to shut up and you'll think I'm...dare I say..... PSYCHO! No dear not Psycho, Psycho is in a shower with a knife, he's busy............Nutjob is the word ,................... nutjob. Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 your ex dated STRIPPERS , didn't he .... Those are the only type I've ever seen act that way , ever , and it was over money not men. Actually, the worst ones weren't strippers. They didn't work at all. Worthless little sluts with rich parents who don't do anything at all. At least strippers work for a living. But the woman who broke his heart by cheating on him was a stripper. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Yeah that would be funnnn-nay. A bunch of us meeting at someone's house sitting there in uncomfortable silence, until we all pull out laptops and start chatting online. To each other. While we sit next to each other in the same room. were all "shockingly boring " IRL. Link to post Share on other sites
what's going on Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 except for the lesbian encounter too Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Actually, the worst ones weren't strippers. They didn't work at all. Worthless little sluts with rich parents who don't do anything at all. At least strippers work for a living. But the woman who broke his heart by cheating on him was a stripper. Those don't qualify as girls , sweetie, those are "Princesses" (not the same as female at all)just fluff. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 I think we might be. Wouldn't that be cool??? I mean, only if we met or something. Not if we stay all shy. your in TX catgirl , where you at , we minght actually be neighbors. Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Those don't qualify as girls , sweetie, those are "Princesses" (not the same as female at all)just fluff. but I'm a princess!!! Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 your in TX catgirl , where you at , we minght actually be neighbors. I'm in Houston. Mt BF is from Dallas. Hence all the hos... Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 I'm in Houston. Mt BF is from Dallas. Hence all the hos... I'm in Dallas but my fam. is in Houston. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Shy girls should have a secret handshake they do so they can recognize each other. I vote that we all do the robot. Link to post Share on other sites
what's going on Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Cat and Tink, I am originally from Cali and now in Dallas and I have to admit the females out here (at least the ones I have met) are a much wilder breed than in Cali (just the ones I've encountered mind you) Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Shy girls should have a secret handshake they do so they can recognize each other. I vote that we all do the robot. I second. (more here to make the minimum characters to post) Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Shy girls should have a secret handshake they do so they can recognize each other. I vote that we all do the robot. That is so nerdy ...or is it geeky??? ( Tink puts her stripper face on looks at you like you had 2 heads and rolls her eyes) Link to post Share on other sites
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