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Hi!

 

Im back with a new silly question ... :)

 

When ppl are at the stage where they are just dating around, going out with lots of people and avoiding committment, ... how clear do they make that to their partners?

 

I have a guy who likes me and wants a casual reln-ship, so with him it's clear and open between us that it's just for fun ...

 

But if i go out with some other guy, is it immoral/dishonest/whatever not to mention that i aint looking for commitment, just fun? i dont wanna hurt anyone.

 

or just go with it and wait until/if he brings up the topic of committment & then simply be honest about it?

 

How do i direct it so that the rel-nship stays light & he doesn't start mentioning stuff like marriage? (bad experience like that w/ last bf)

 

Thanks!

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It's best from the very start to make it clear that you are just looking for a casual dating relationship and nothing more.

 

However, if a guy really likes you he's not going to care a darn thing about what you say and he's gonna go for it. So being straight up front will help you in situations where the guy is not inclined to fall for you but it won't make a bit of difference otherwise.

 

Guys who are going to fall for you won't hear a word you say about keeping things casual. They will only consider you a challenge and work their butts off to win your heart.

 

Keep an eye out in all your relationships and stop seeing guys who seem to want to get more serious if you are not so inclined.

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