SJB Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 Left feeling confused, since the start of this yr, I have had a weird sexual tension/chemistry relationship with a fairly new friend, we always connected well and people often made comments about whether or not we had done anything together, this slowly progressed into long eye contact, text msg conversations, calling me up to see if I was out and so forth. However, a couple of weeks ago we were out on an evening in town, I was talking to an acquaintance he saw us talking, gave me a long look and then promptly left whilst blanking me. Ever since this point I haven’t heard from him, and we barely talk in public – I feel too awkward, and he makes no effort – it came to a head on Saturday evening when he was being positively angry towards me, yet fine with everyone else, he wouldn’t even sit down next to me! The only times we spoke he slated the bloke who ive pulled recently, yet he hasn’t been an angel with other girls either! Is this all in my head and I should just forget it? Link to post Share on other sites
qnmc Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I'll give you the male perspective. Odds are he's very interested, and he may be so interested he can't quite control it inside. If you're interested in this guy, take it as a compliment that he got jealous when he saw you with another dude. It probably hurt him a little, as he might have been thinking you two were on the road to something. His stand-offishness may be because he's a little too in to you for his own comfort and he's trying to protect himself. If you're interested, it sounds like the tension (that good kind of tension) has reached a point where it's time to do something about it. How about making a strong move on your part and talking to him about the chemistry between the two of you? If you do this, don't be subtle - "subtle" is lost on us dudes and is even more lost on us when we're more "in" to someone than is comfortable for us - be direct about how you're interested in him. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 ^^^ I tend to agree, seeing from the dude POV. He should make a move, he's probably not experienced or confident in dating, but if you are you should make the move to see what's up. Link to post Share on other sites
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