ratzskinakie Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Im in college, and I was wondering whats the best way to approach a girl in a classroom and ask her out? Its the only time I see her, and I just don't want to approach so sudden and be like "hey, do you want to go out?" and freak her out. I have never really talked to her. though we are aware that we both exist. She has a some pals that sit with her, and it just intimidates me more when people are around and the whole classroom scene if you know what I mean. thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Do you look like your avatar ? lol...jk.... I would just try and smile , make lots of eye contact and when you get her alone for a minute ask her if she would like to hang out after school ? Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Picking up girls is almost the same way as trying to make friends with a dude. This is the best advice you will ever get in your life and on this site. I won't go into details, but I will just say that dating is like sex, it's supposed to be natural. Girls on this site applaud me. as the real alpha male, not that other alpha male. Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 Girls on this site applaud me. as the real alpha male, not that other alpha male. In your dreams, SM. Just try to catch eye contact with her. Don't gawk at her. But, just let her catch you staring at her. Look away after she catches you staring. You don't want to scare the girl! The next week, get a seat closer to her. As far as approaching her in class, I don't think that's such a good idea, kind of awkward..unless you want to pass a note. There has got to be a more appropriate place outside of class. Don't you have breaks? Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 13, 2006 Share Posted April 13, 2006 I agree with the other LS'ers. Make eye contact, sit closer, and talk to her before or after class. What I did in college & grad school was sit next to them, say hi, and go from there. Even if she has friends near her, well if you can get the confidence to go up to her, even in front of her friends and say hi. That requires some guts. Don't worry about the negatives, just say hi; no pain no gain. If it feels any better, I got shot down TWICE in one attempt. She smiled, shot me down, and while crashing and burning, shot me again; then smiled more. She just started seeing someone but we're still amicable around each other. Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted April 14, 2006 Share Posted April 14, 2006 Don't worry about the negatives, just say hi; no pain no gain. If it feels any better, I got shot down TWICE in one attempt. She smiled, shot me down, and while crashing and burning, shot me again; then smiled more. She just started seeing someone but we're still amicable around each other. Jerbear, it must really suck to be a guy sometimes. I've never asked a guy out in my life.. and don't know if I'd ever have the guts to do it. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted April 14, 2006 Share Posted April 14, 2006 i agree with the others. the classroom is no different than any other place of meeting women. method 1) make EC...if she responds, smile..if she smiles too...go over and say hi and make fluff talk. since you're in the classroom go over and sit next to her, or perhaps you can ask something about class....at the end of class ask her out. method 2) class is over, make EC..smile..go over ..say hi, make small talk. then ask her out remember, her friends are your friends too. ignore them or treat them badly, expect the same from that girl. girls are like a flock of birds... Link to post Share on other sites
Author ratzskinakie Posted April 14, 2006 Author Share Posted April 14, 2006 Don't you have breaks? Its just a 50 minute class, but I guess the asking her before or after class is a good idea, its just I dont see her often during those times. Maybe I could attempt sitting next to her like some of you say, but I just think it will be a bit wierd sitting next to her, and not sitting my same spot that I normaly sit in, its just be awkward for me. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 14, 2006 Share Posted April 14, 2006 Its college, unless you got one of them professors with assigned seating. Sit near her and either pack up a little slower than her or as she is coming in to classroom, accidentally drop a pen and see if she picks up. Chit chat with her and yeah, thank her... Link to post Share on other sites
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