Laura Posted September 28, 2001 Share Posted September 28, 2001 he is still single. Do you think it will go smooth if I divorce my husband and remarry to the guy? I don't know what to do. I love him tons and so does he...but the problem is we might have to end our relationship soon cause he wants to get married (he said he is so lonely). I odn't wanna lose him. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 28, 2001 Share Posted September 28, 2001 Grow up lady! For Gawd's sake, you are married and you can't divorce your current husband in order to marry every guy who comes down the pike who you are attracted to in some way. In case nobody told you, there are millions of men out there who are perfectly capable of ringing your chimes. I mean if you work on it you could fall in love every day. In case your mama never discussed committment with you, that's what we do when we are old enough to get married. We fall in love with someone and make a committment to that person to remain with them and not be looking at every Tom, Dick and Harry who walks through the parking lot and considering going out with them and falling in love. You are obviously very immature and you got married way too early. I don't know what to tell you...except I feel horribly sorry for your husband because he probably loves you a great deal and doesn't realize that he married such a child. If you decide to divorce him, just stay free for five or ten years and take in as many men as you can. You are far from being ready for any kind of committment at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Kiz Posted September 28, 2001 Share Posted September 28, 2001 Usually, when the grass is greener on the other side,it's because it's full of pesticides. Watch out for what you think you want...it may be attractive simply because you "morally" can't have it right now. People take wedding vows for a reason;if you can't commit to yours, do your husband a favor and leave CORRECTLY. Know too, that if your lover is willing to cheat with you, he will be willing to cheat on you. Link to post Share on other sites
Stand Posted September 28, 2001 Share Posted September 28, 2001 Give laura a break she married the wrong person, it can happen to all of us Grow up lady! For Gawd's sake, you are married and you can't divorce your current husband in order to marry every guy who comes down the pike who you are attracted to in some way. In case nobody told you, there are millions of men out there who are perfectly capable of ringing your chimes. I mean if you work on it you could fall in love every day. In case your mama never discussed committment with you, that's what we do when we are old enough to get married. We fall in love with someone and make a committment to that person to remain with them and not be looking at every Tom, Dick and Harry who walks through the parking lot and considering going out with them and falling in love. You are obviously very immature and you got married way too early. I don't know what to tell you...except I feel horribly sorry for your husband because he probably loves you a great deal and doesn't realize that he married such a child. If you decide to divorce him, just stay free for five or ten years and take in as many men as you can. You are far from being ready for any kind of committment at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 28, 2001 Share Posted September 28, 2001 YOU STATE: "Give laura a break...she married the wrong person, it can happen to all of us" If that's the case, she should do what most other people in her situation to. Get a divorce and do a much better job of looking for a mate rather than jumping on the first guy who comes down the pike. This is insane. Link to post Share on other sites
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