Re: Maybe I'm blind...

[Tony T]

First you jerk him over, break his heart to go back to your ex. He is very understanding but it takes him 1.5 years...about 540 days....that's 12,960 hours....or 777,600 minutes to get over the pain of losing you.

 

Now, at your own convenience, you just want to walk back into his life and have him act just like nothing happened. I think this is a great time for you to mature a bit and understand that you can't treat people like shxt and expect them to come running back to you when you whistle.

 

I think this guy is great and I think he is being ever so kind to give you the time of day. I would tell you to take a long walk off a short pier. Anybody I take a year and a half...540 days...that's 12,960 hours....777,600 minutes to cry over, be depressed over, hurt and ache over...is not going to get a chance to do that again.

 

Have some patience, be kind and understanding, and stop being so selfish to think that this guy you hit in the heart with Intercontinental Ballistic Missiles is going to just crawl back into your arms. Give him time, lots of time.

 

If I was him, you'd be wasting your time. You know him better than I do. Will he want to risk being raked over again? You'll have to answer that.

 

If the two of you are meant to be together, it will all work out. And if there's someone else out there for you, I promise you will find him. And when you do, don't screw him over.

 

Please ask yourself...are you going after him just to be with somebody...are you doing this out of guilt....does he really mean something to you? You also have to weigh the possibility that if you decide to leave him again you will feel awesomely guilty. Do you want that responsibility?

 

I wish you well in whatever happens and pardon the tough language. It's the only way I could get my points across absent talking to you on the phone or in person.