Darin Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Please refer to this post: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t86145/ Or anything before this from me to understand where I am coming from.. I just wanted to thank everyone. I know it has only been a few days since I made the previously mentioned post, but I can already feel a big difference in myself. The big change in myself has been my confidence. I understand now in personal reflection how much I let that slip and how much I became reliant on someone else to give me confidence. I don't want to let someone control me so completely. It's not that I have stopped feeling the way I have, I just am getting to a point where I feel like she is missing out, and that I will be fine whether she comes back or doesn't. I am setting plans for myself when I move back to STL, to further my career and improve even more my own self confidence. Anyway, I know the one big consistancy here (on the forums) is no contact, and I still have not been able to do that myself... I feel that moving is going to have a tremendous impact anyway. But I am feeling so much better today than I was 2-3 days ago. I am still holding on to hope, but I won't let it control me. Link to post Share on other sites
tikigods Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 its all about the baby steps one day at a time and all that jazz you just stick with us and you will go far! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Glad to hear you are doing better. Don't worry about the future too much. You need to focus on the "right now" which is getting your life back in order. Good luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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