bbchic Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 In high school my guy had no girl friends that were interested in him, because they held interests for his guy other friends. My baby was also a bit fat. Now he's lost the weight and is in college. I've noticed that he's got a bunch of girls interested in him because a) he's hilarious b) he's smart c) he's confident d) he's a dependable person and friend.... So in case you can't tell i really like this guy. Period. The problem is that lately he's always around these two girls that live next door (they're attractive but not pretty). Specifically he's always aroudn this quiet asian chick. I feel like whenever he's not with me he's with her. Plus she's never shown real interest in other guys. She's always smiling around him and looking at him and it's SO obvious. I've told him that I don't like the fact that she's around him all the time and I've told him that I suspect she likes him. His response was that he thinks of her a sister but he's never denied that she has feelings for him. And yet, even though he knows it bothers me, whenever i'm not there, he's most likely in her room with her roommate (whom he's also friends with) watchign tv or cracking jokes, sleeping on the damn girl's bed etc. Anyway, just so you know, he wasn't always like this. he used to pay me a lot more attention. He used to come to my room all the time, now i'm the one finding myself always going over to his. I hate that. I feel so damn pathetic trudging over there every day! Plus, the more time he spends with this girl the more inadequate I feel as a girlfriend. i'm beginning to question my strengths and personality. I don't understand how he's not 'outflirted' from being around me. I know I certainly am from being around him. i hardly ever flirt anymore. By the way I know he's not going to cheat, trust me, it goes against all of his morals. So basically, i'm upset, confused and looking for answers to this problem. Link to post Share on other sites
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