To Tony on previous post .

[confused]

Thank you Tony for responding to my post. My boyfriend told me that yesterday he was having a nightmare and suddenly he woke up and felt two hands holding his hands and telling him i got you.

 

Then he said God help me,Jesus and the hands released him. After that he said he prayed and something made him feel that he shouldn't be touching me below my waist.

 

I am christian and believe in God, in my religion it is not ok to have intercourse before marriage. When i started having other type of sexual contact with my guy,i told my pastor to see if that was wrong.

 

My pastor said that i was expressing my love to just one guy and it was ok as long as i didn't have intercourse.at the same time he said it wasn't a sin as long as i don't sleep around when i have a boyfriend.

 

I really respect if my guy doesn't want to have anything if his beliefs told him that. he's christian too. but still i relly don't know what to think.

[Tony T]

As you grow older, it is likely you will rely more on your own beliefs and conscience and less on what a pastor or religious leader says is right or wrong. However, you must do what you must.

 

This entire matter is in your hands and you must do what you feel is right for the situation. This is a good time to exercise your decision making abilities.