LN8840K Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 after being strung along, I get a message telling me about her boyfriend and an invitation to call. after calling I get an offer to call anothertime if I want to discuss the matter further. two things to remember Trix R 4 Kids and stay away from the ex
Guest Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 It seems that girls will do this sometimes to their ex's, never heard of a guy doing that. What compells them to call someone they dumped just to tell him all about how great her new man is?
Author LN8840K Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 ever notice how easy it is to see someone else be manipulated and say wow they are really trying to push your buttons, when it's you the picture is not so clear. I think if someone goes as far as shooving things in your face, then they are really not over you, I can think about 0 times I tried to use jealousy and got the result I desired, it just does not work
Author LN8840K Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 I think she's taunting me now ..... she all of a sudden likes hanging out at a store my mother frequents and makes it a point to say Hi to her, goo away hellion
Carlthecoffeeaddict Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 good intentions? maybe she wants to feel ok for doing what she did to you, in other words......she doesnt want to live with the guilt of what she did to you, and the more you respond to her, the less guilty she feels b/c she will see that youre "ok" when youre really not.
riobikini Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 re: Carl: " good intentions? maybe she wants to feel ok for doing what she did to you, in other words......she doesnt want to live with the guilt of what she did to you, and the more you respond to her, the less guilty she feels b/c she will see that youre "ok" when youre really not." Carl may have hit the nail on the head....it's how I would have responded to you. Like someone else said in another post: "Fake it til you make it". I agree. That simply means that what she doesn't know, she shouldn't know, so don't ever let her see you not moving on. Do everything you can, for her eyes only, to make it appear that you've let her go completely. You may still have some work to do to actually get over her, -but keep that info to yourself. Take care. -Rio
Author LN8840K Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 Hey RIO, just to clarify, when you say " thats how you would have responded to you", what action are you saying you would have done ?
riobikini Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Answer: " Do everything you can, for her eyes only, to make it appear that you've let her go completely. You may still have some work to do to actually get over her, -but keep that info to yourself." -Rio
Author LN8840K Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 RIO Carl may have hit the nail on the head....it's how I would have responded to you. I dont understand are you saying if you were her, and if so what specific action are you talking about ?
riobikini Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 What I'm saying is, do not show that you still have these feelings...let her believe you are moving on just fine. -Rio
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