Guest Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 So here it is! I met a girl at work and fell in love with her right away! we dated for about 2 years seemed to fight alot and i'll be honest I am very shy and had problems opening up to her so our relationship had it's problems (she's not prefect either though) but we always got back togeather and remained faithfull. After one of our recent breakups i finally thought it was over and had met someone else online, I have been dating her for about 3 weeks and she seems too really like me. The problem is is that I'm just not attracted to her at all I find myself wanting my ex. even more than ever and she is totally waiting on the side line for me. I feel that my ex is infactuated with me but that seems to make me want to be with her even more (she has always been there for me) New girl fits in better with my family life while the ex fits in better with my friends. So basically i wan't some direction. I am not a woman abuser nor do i want to hurt anyone (i realize someone will be hurt). Am i an idiot for wanting to get back with my Ex? Some of my friends think i'm stupid to get back with my ex, while some of them say just do what makes you happy. Some people say they never get into arguments with their wives or lovers. Could this actually be true? Is there possibly a better girl out there for me? I guess i'm a dating retarde and wonder if i'll be miserable for the rest of my life or if i should just try to go with what makes me happy. I'm 25 both girls are 23 Link to post Share on other sites
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