my story

[Iwanttohope]

Enough is Enough--you need to read more posts. There are PLENTY of people on the OM/OW site that take responsiblity for what they've done.

 

This site is to build people up in a heatlhy way, not tear them down and shame them. Try to hold on to that.

[silentjuliet]

Just because you were abused, doesn't mean it gives you the right to do it to someone else. Sleeping with another married woman's husband is abusive towards her. I hope from now on you are choosing men who are not taken and also that in the future you decide to get a divorce first!

 

As for the "harassment" in which we only get one side of the story- we dont know if you partook in any other harassment yourself towards the wife- if there was an issue, you can file a restraining order etc. But did you? Oh and the times she physically assaulted you-- exactly how many times did you have her arrested? did she ever have you arrested?.. ... if the answer is no the both first questions above, maybe you are blowing things out of proportion and have some involvement in this whole mess as well.

 

I'm so tired of posts like this that are so damn one-sided ("im so innocent" )that pretty much provide a tailored story showing vindication and validation for their cheating etc and never one other bad thing do they claim to have done..

 

 

Do you actually think people that go to a forum to express themselves are people that don't think about their actions? People that don't feel any shame or blame probably don't waste a moment in their day thinking about it or much less posting for help about it.

 

And what purpose does your response serve her now? She's not currently involved with a MM and if you read any of Movin's posts to other people or on the forum you would see she doesn't actively seek MM's or encourage anyone to become a OW/OM. She does exactly the opposite. She shares her story for not only positive reinforcement for what shes' doing to change her life for the better but to inspire others to not take the road she travelled.

 

It just seems that you aren't trying to be supportive in anyway and instead are taking out your own frustration on someone else. Shame on you and anyone else that does this to serve their own purpose.