ashamed Posted September 30, 2001 Share Posted September 30, 2001 I'm so ashamed of my self because everytime me and my guy have a strong argument,i talk about splitting up someday. i love very much and he loves me too. but i don't know why i do this? he told me he's afraid that one day i'll leave him or stop loving him. i will never do that but i wish i'll stop saying things like that everytime there's a big disagreement between us. help me dealwith this i don't know how? please advice. Link to post Share on other sites
harriet Posted October 1, 2001 Share Posted October 1, 2001 I also have that kind of problem,the best thing i'm doing right now is to keep my mouth shut instead of arguing(most especially over those non sense things),i've had enough of those stupid little things that can cause stupid fights that leads us into a break-up thing.So if i were you,control yourself,if its not worthfighting,go over with your feelings and think of the best thing that can improve your relationship with him. have a nice day Link to post Share on other sites
arthropod Posted October 1, 2001 Share Posted October 1, 2001 sounds to me that you're trying to put FEAR into him to stress your point, or to make him see things "your way" . . . and this approach does NOT accomplish that!! if you don't start watching what you say in the "heat of the argument", you'll have to worry about HIM leaving instead. i recommend swallowing your pride a little, and thinking a little more rationally when having an argument. I'm so ashamed of my self because everytime me and my guy have a strong argument,i talk about splitting up someday. i love very much and he loves me too. but i don't know why i do this? he told me he's afraid that one day i'll leave him or stop loving him. i will never do that but i wish i'll stop saying things like that everytime there's a big disagreement between us. help me dealwith this i don't know how? please advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Shellshock Posted October 1, 2001 Share Posted October 1, 2001 I agree with anthropod because it sounds like you have a nice and caring man, however you can make him what you want him to be...an a**h***..even if it's not what you want. I'm so ashamed of my self because everytime me and my guy have a strong argument,i talk about splitting up someday. i love very much and he loves me too. but i don't know why i do this? he told me he's afraid that one day i'll leave him or stop loving him. i will never do that but i wish i'll stop saying things like that everytime there's a big disagreement between us. help me dealwith this i don't know how? please advice. Link to post Share on other sites
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