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i'm a 28 year old guy. I've just finished a relationship with a girl. The reason being she has already got bf who she doesn't want to ditch. So i can't stand it and we're over. Now there's another girl who i've known her since college. I had a big cursh on her since then and now we've been going out for dinners and movies. And once again, she's a bf. How come all these gorgeous girls while having a bf will still like going out with some other guys?

 

I talked about it with some of my buddies and they said that this is the sad truth. All good looking girls at my age should have got a good bf or they are having some other issues. And they said if i want to meet a girl without a bf, i've got to find them in primary schools or highschools. Or i should go after those ugly ones. Well they might be right, but i think i just can't give in to that. Isn't it pathetic?

[arthropod]

so, why do you go out with these women who have boyfriends?? it seems this is something you knew in the beginning, so why bother?!!

 

i met my current girlfriend on the internet, and she is absolutely the BEST thing that has EVER happened to me!! AND, i would NEVER have met her in some bar or at the grocery store -- circumstances just wouldn't have allowed that.

 

so, i'd recommend giving that a shot. now, you have to be careful with the whole "internet" thing, but it really is a GREAT way to meet people!

i'm a 28 year old guy. I've just finished a relationship with a girl. The reason being she has already got bf who she doesn't want to ditch. So i can't stand it and we're over. Now there's another girl who i've known her since college. I had a big cursh on her since then and now we've been going out for dinners and movies. And once again, she's a bf. How come all these gorgeous girls while having a bf will still like going out with some other guys? I talked about it with some of my buddies and they said that this is the sad truth. All good looking girls at my age should have got a good bf or they are having some other issues. And they said if i want to meet a girl without a bf, i've got to find them in primary schools or highschools. Or i should go after those ugly ones. Well they might be right, but i think i just can't give in to that. Isn't it pathetic?

[Lauren]

Not all women with bfs date around. It depends upon the maturity of the woman and where she is at in her life in regards to dating. It is too bad that you continue to have these experiences. A slight few are ruining the reputation of us stand-up-citizen-type females out there. The saying around the girls' water cooler is "men!" - meaning that men date around. I've always held the policy that there is an equivalent female to these so-called "male" standards. I guess you have discovered that. You will find, too, that there are women that want to date one person, just as you do. Don't give up. These women that you have met and dated will always exist. So will the male equivalent. They will poddle through life having these "dating" experiences; great times bouncing around and having "fun". "Being single" as I have heard it said - from male and female. Uh huh. Being single is not dating around in my book. Being single is being unattached and having a life. Maybe looking for someone, maybe happy alone. This "dating around" single life is something else. Finding someone that feels the same way takes throwing many fishes back into the lake. In regards to your other statement - go after the ugly ones. PLEASE!!!!!! Do not lower yourself to that level. External attributes - looks, money, body, sex, career, possessions, friends, etc - will NEVER make you happy or find you a steady dating partner!